Sexuality is a fundamental part of being human. Maintaining healthy sexual chemistry between you and your partner is important for any relationship to function. To do this, attraction and compatibility are certainly important, but spontaneity and thinking outside the box (or bedroom) can liven things up and lead to a sensual and steamy evening. If you’re looking for a few new ideas, we’ve gathered a few that you can do tonight.
Break out of Routine
Every so often, it’s best to take the path less traveled. While this analogy is often applied to the decisions you make in life, it applies to the healthy upkeep of your sex life as well. Like so much else, routine sex life can become just that—routine. This is the perfect opportunity to try something new, something exciting, something that you’ve been wanting to but hasn’t got the courage up to ask. This doesn’t have to be anything too drastic—just something new that hasn’t been tried before.
Foreplay for Your Pleasure
Any writer will tell you that a rough draft always comes before the final masterpiece. Foreplay works along very similar lines. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and the best symphonies all have several movements before arriving at a shattering crescendo. Clever analogies aside, you and your partner taking a longer time than usual to focus on foreplay can help set the stage for a night neither one of you will soon forget. Some couples spend 20-30 minutes on average, so try to extend that time period by a small increment at first, and then gradually build your way up to an entire hour. This might seem like a long time, but you’ll be grateful in the end.
Changing Speed, Changing Tempo
When you and your partner first met, you most likely went at it like a couple of rabbits. In those early days, your libido was hopping, and there was little needed in the way of encouragement to climb into bed and do the deed. Just because the frequency of your activity has slowed down, doesn’t mean it has to be completely domesticated. Shifting the speed and duration of the activity can greatly heighten the experience. Variety and spontaneity along with the occasional ‘quickie’ can make for a week where anything is possible.
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