Prostate Massagers

Your eyes aren’t playing tricks on you. We said it. Prostate massagers can create multiple orgasms in men. Why? Because the prostate gland is a super-sensitive spot in your anus which is already incredibly sensitive and erogenous for many people. Using a prostate massager provides more stimulation, more power, and more targeted sensations. Not only will the first orgasm be amazing, but if you’re lucky, so will the next. Before you scoff and say it’s impossible because you can only ejaculate once, we admit it. You’re right. Once you ejaculate, you probably won’t be able to for a while. But that doesn’t mean you can’t orgasm again. With the prostate massager tapping at your p-spot, the bone-crushing, muscle-clenching pleasure you feel at orgasm can and does happen again and again, even without ejaculation.

Prostate massagers come in a variety of shapes, sizes, colors, and vibrations. You can choose a long, slender style with a bulbous tip designed to hit your prostate just right. Maybe you’d like something that provides more all-around stimulation. Some Aneros prostate stimulators don’t have vibrators, but they stimulate both the prostate gland on the inside and the perineum on the outside as you move it back and forth. A great prostate massager is thick enough to hit multiple spots in your anus but targeted enough to focus the vibration or pulsation on your prostate. Like vibrators for women, prostate massagers are available in so many options, it can be hard to choose which one to try first.

Before I use a prostate massager, I need to find my prostate. How do I do that?

Lube up your finger really well and slowly insert it into your anus. You only need to go in about an inch or two. Now, feel around on the front side – this will be directly behind your penis and testicles. Aim for your navel. You’re feeling for something that doesn’t feel like the surrounding tissue and is the size of a walnut. That’s your prostate. Like the g-spot, once you tap it a little, you’ll know you’ve found it.

Will I need lube with my prostate massager?

Yes! All anal penetration requires lubricant. Most prostate massagers need a water based lubricant unless the instructions indicate it’s safe to use a silicone based lube. Use a thick lube to make penetration more comfortable.

How do I clean a prostate massager when I’m done?

The vast majority of prostate massagers can easily be cleaned with soap and warm water or a sex toy cleaner. Prostate stimulators with no vibrator or motor of any kind made of silicone, glass, or metal can be washed in the top rack of your dishwasher.

Is it weird to use a prostate massager while I’m having sex with my partner?

Not at all. Sex toys aren’t just for people to use alone when masturbating. You can definitely use them during partnered sex, too. If stimulating your prostate feels good and enhances the moment with your partner, go for it.