Get your kink on with bondage sex
Many things come to mind when you think of bondage and sex. Ropes? Handcuffs? Leather? Bondage sex incorporates all of that and more. To keep it sexy and easy, try fuzzy handcuffs. They don’t require an extra skill. You only have to remember where you put the key. Cuffs are good for the partner who can hold still while you ravish them with your tongue, fingers, and anything else you can imagine. If your partner can’t help but struggle, try Bed and Door Restraints.
Leather cuffs and a few clips later, they aren’t going anywhere and you don’t have to worry they’ll break the cuffs. Bondage sex doesn’t have to be complicated. Immobilize your partner so they can’t move much, make sure their sensitive parts are exposed and provide extreme pleasure while they’re helpless on the bed. If you want to take it up a notch, throw in a blindfold so they won’t know what you’ll do next. Adding a rope to your bondage play lets you get really creative. Attach sex toys, use the rope as reins while you have sex, or tie them in a precarious position so you can tease them in the most delicious way for as long as you both want. Bondage sex is all about creativity and pleasure.
Why BDSM?
A lot of people practice BDSM for a variety of different reasons. One of the most common reasons is to simply help both partners unleash their desire to have control in the bedroom while the other lives out a fantasy of surrendering that control. Of course, all BDSM games should be discussed in advance and practiced in a loving way, but simply role-playing this type of power exchange can be exhilarating for many people. Some couples even take turns with who is in charge, and this can teach each partner a lot about their own sexuality.
What Do We Need?
Couples just getting into bondage will need a variety of different sex toys to start playing. What you choose is up to you and there are tons of options out there. Below, you’ll find a few of the best toys and bondage clothing for beginner and advanced players looking to experience a bit more from their s&m play.
Sex & Mischief Crystal Whip
No setup would be complete without a whip, and for most couples, the Sex & Mischief Crystal Whip is a perfect starter. Complete with a strand of clear crystals along the faux leather tails, this is one whip nobody interested in bondage should be without. It’s also well-crafted for longevity.
Nipple Clamps
Whether they’re used on sensitive male or female nipples, nipple clamps provide a real bite that can make those interested in pain play very turned on. Best of all, they’re totally adjustable, so no matter how much you want to feel them, they can work for you.
Strict Lace Corset Vest/thong Xl Black
Designed to be worn by a woman in charge, the Strict Lace Corset Vest/thong Xl Black will have your partner on her knees kissing your feet! You’ll also feel extra sexy in this beautiful garment, and it makes the perfect gift for somebody looking to entice their partner into a little bit of s&m play.Visit Jack and Jill to learn more about all of the great bondage clothing and toys we have to offer. Whether you’re a beginner looking for furry handcuffs or an experienced player looking for something a bit kinkier, we have what you need to spice up your love life. We also offer a variety of other sex toys and adult products for men, women, and couples.
FAQs For Bondage Play
I want to be tied up during sex but I’m afraid to tell my partner. What do I do?
What if I try bondage sex and then decide I don’t like it?
If it happens while you’re tied up and naked, let your partner know you need to stop. You might want to have a safeword – a word that doesn’t fit the moment – that will catch their attention. But if you realize after you’re done that you don’t like it, talk to your partner. There are a lot of other kinky things to try. Bondage sex is only one of them. You might only need to change the way you did it and try another option next time.
I don’t like rope or handcuffs. Are there other options?
Absolutely! You can try bondage tape which is easy to use. Under-the-bed restraint kits are another option. They include leather cuffs which aren’t like handcuffs at all. You can use a collar and a leash if you want to add role play to your bondage sex. There are a lot of ways to restrain your partner!
What kind of rope is best for bondage sex?
If you’re new to tying rope, try cotton rope or a polyester blend. it is soft and easy to use. Don’t go to a home improvement store or use rope out of your garage until you know exactly what you’re doing.
What other kinky toys can I include in bondage sex?
It all depends on what you and your partner are into. Paddles and floggers are great if you enjoy impact play or spankings. Add vibrators and dildos for orgasm control and extra pleasure. You can use hog-tie restraints or spreader bars to put your partner in different positions. Once you go down the kinky path into bondage sex, you’ll be amazed at how much there is to try.
