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Strap on

The strap on isn’t just a toy—it’s an invitation. An invitation to explore, play, reverse roles, and rewrite the rules of pleasure. At its core, it is a wearable harness built to hold a dildo or another insertable toy, giving the wearer full control over penetrative action. And no, it’s not just for one kind of couple or orientation—these sex toys are as versatile as desire itself.

From power play and pegging to same-sex intimacy and gender-affirming pleasure, the strap on open doors.

Choosing the Right Strap On

Today’s market is packed with options—from no-fuss beginner harnesses to full-on pro-level rigs that feel like they were made for a stage show.

But here’s the thing: strap-ons aren’t just gear. They’re empowerment tools. They help us discover fantasies we didn’t know we had, deepen trust between partners, and give shape to identities. Whether you’re dipping a toe in or going all in, the right fit can change everything.

Looking for just the attachments? You’ll find plenty of dongs & dildos for harnesses here.

So what matters when picking one out?

1. Strap On Harness

Every solid experience starts with a solid base: the harness. There are a few common styles:

  • Two-Strap on Harness: This classic model straps around the thighs and waist—sturdy, snug, reliable.
  • G-String Style: Slim, sexy, and surprisingly comfy. Great for minimalist lovers.
  • Brief-Style Harness: Looks like underwear, feels like comfort. Ideal for folks new to the game.

2. Dildo Compatibility

Let’s be real—no one wants their dildo falling out mid-thrust. Check that your harness has the right O-ring size, or better yet, one that swaps out for different sex toys. Some harnesses are even made for double penetration. Yes, really.

3. Comfort & Material

Silicone is a fan favorite for a reason—soft, body-safe, and easy to clean. Add some padding and adjustable straps, and you’re in for a smooth ride.

For the Ladies

Ladies, take the reins. Whether it’s about power, exploration, or just good ol’ pleasure, it can be your go-to tool. Vaginal penetration with a strap-on dildo can be just as satisfying—sometimes more—especially if you choose one with vibration or opt for something that feels like the real deal.

For the Guys

Erectile dysfunction? Not a barrier here. A hollow strap on harness can let you enjoy penetrative play without pressure. The design allows room for a soft penis while still delivering pleasure to your partner. Plus, if you already own a suction cup dildo, chances are it’ll work with most harnesses: no batteries, no drama, and no worry of premature ejaculation.

Strap-On Dildos

Got a suction cup dildo? Great—you’re halfway there. Slide it through the O-ring on your harness, and boom, you’ve got a strap on. Pro tip: always go with phthalate-free, high-quality material. Trust us on that one.

Dildos: Expanding Possibilities

Strap-on dildos come in all shapes and sizes—from hyper-realistic to totally out there. Some vibrate, some curve, and some even double as solo-use suction toys or two-person connectors. Great for either vaginal or anal stimulation for those into anal play.

Popular Strap Dildo Features:

  • Realistic Designs: For when you want it to look and feel familiar.
  • Vibrating Options: Because a little buzz can go a long way.
  • Double-Penetration Models: For folks chasing that full-bodied sensation.
  • Strapless Strap Ons: One end inside you, the other inside them. No straps needed. Similar to double dildos.
  • Plus Size Strap Ons: Designed to fit and flatter fuller figures without compromising on stability.

Exploring And Tips for Beginners

If you’re just getting started, here’s how to make your first experience more “ooh” and less “oops”:

  • Talk First: Communication is sexier than hesitation. Share what you want, what you don’t, and what you’re curious about.
  • Start Simple: A basic harness, a medium dildo, and some confidence can go a long way.
  • Lube Liberally: Water-based lubricant makes everything smoother, especially for anal sex. No exceptions.
  • Rehearse: Yep, practice. Adjust your harness. Test your strokes. Make it your own.

Advanced Techniques

Ready to level up? Here’s where things get spicy:

  • Power Play: Pegging or swapping roles can flip dynamics in a fun, freeing way.
  • Double Trouble: Some harnesses let you insert two dildos—twice the fun, twice the fill.
  • Tech-Enhanced Toys: Remote control dildos? App-controlled vibration? Yes and yes.

The Psychological Impact of Play

Strap-on sex isn’t only about the body—it does a number on the heart and mind too:

  • Trust Builder: Exploring new territory can strengthen your bond.
  • Confidence Booster: Owning your pleasure is powerful. Wearing it? Even more so.
  • Dialogue Starter: It encourages open, real conversations about intimacy and identity.

Sex Toys for Women: Expanding Horizons

Strap ons aren’t just partner tools—they’re for solo play too. Explore strapless strap ons, vibrating harness-compatible toys, and more. The options are endless when you’re in the mood to mix things up.

Breaking Myths About Strap Sex

Let’s be clear: strap-ons are for everyone. They’re not bound by gender, anatomy, or orientation. They’re simply about giving and receiving pleasure in new, exciting ways. Any position. Even doggy style.

In the end, it is more than a toy—it’s a tool for connection, empowerment, and exploration. Whether you’re pushing boundaries or just finding your rhythm, these toys might just change the way you think about sex.

And hey, if you’re not looking for a strap-on dildo right now, no problem. Check out our collection of other dildos—there’s something for every kind of curiosity.