For some people, the g-spot is a lot like a unicorn, mermaid, or fairy. You’ve heard a lot about them, but you’ve never seen one for yourself. You’re not sure it’s real or not. Even the medical community can’t quite agree whether the g-spot spot exists or not.
But ask anyone with a vagina who’s found and enjoyed it, this small spot on the vaginal wall is very real. If you’d like to experience the elusive g-spot orgasm for yourself, here are some tips on how to get yourself off with a vibrator.
Find Your G-Spot
The first step to getting off with a g-spot orgasm is to find the spot. Unfortunately there’s no map to follow, and not everyone enjoys it. But with a bit of self-exploration, you can start searching.
- Insert a finger or two into your vagina.
- Touch the anterior wall (it’s on the same side as your stomach) until you feel a ridged or raised area that doesn’t feel like anything else.
- Hook your fingers and rub.
- If you definitely feel something, start stroking or tapping.
If it feels good, congrats, you’ve found the g-spot. And if you don’t feel anything, keep feeling around or you may not have a sensitive g-spot. No worries, there are plenty of others vibrators that can get you off in other ways.
Figure Out What Feels Good
With your hand or with vibrators you already have, it’s time to figure out what feels good. Some people like a firm, steady tap-tap-tap against their g-spot. Others like more of a stroking or rubbing sensation.
Many, but not all, vibrators can stimulate your g-spot. As long as it can be inserted into your body comfortably and safely, it’s worth a try. If you don’t have a vibrator already, that’s okay. You can often find a toy later that simulates what you can do with your hand. The difference is the power and intensity between them.
Pick Your Vibrator
Maybe the vibrator you have won’t work on your g-spot or it can’t penetrate your vagina. Now it’s time to start shopping. You can choose from a variety of styles. The only thing that matters is that it can fit in your body and hit the spot you want.
Look for g-spot vibrators. These tend to be long and slender with a bulbous tip at the end. Some will be angled at the end but not always. Once you decide on the style you want, check the vibrations. Buzzing tends to mimic a hard stroke or rub, while a pulse emulates that tap-tap-tap that so many people like. A lot of vibrators can do both.
Play With Your Vibrator
If you’ve bought a new vibrator, the fun part is when you get home and you’re ready to masturbate. For those who’ve used sex toys before, this isn’t hard, but there are certain things to keep in mind whether you’re new to sex toys or you’ve been getting off with them for a long time.
- Fully charge your toy before you use it or make sure it has working batteries.
- Wipe or rinse it off to get any dust or lint off of it — depending on how it was packaged or stored.
- Use lube to help make penetration easier. Use water-based lube for silicone or TPR/TPE vibrators. ABS plastic toys can use silicone lube. Always check the manufacturer’s instructions.
- Slowly move your toy in and around your body to find what feels good.
- Play with the settings to find the setting you like most.
Once you find the spot and the setting, lie back and have fun! For a different sensation, ask your partner to use your vibrator on you. The change in angle and the difference in pace and tempo will make you feel something entirely new.
Conclusion
G-spot orgasms don’t happen for everyone, but if that’s your hotspot, enjoy it as much as you can. Use your hands to find it, and your vibrator to give yourself mind blowing orgasms. Most vibrators can do the job, as long as they can penetrate you, but consider g-spot vibrators first. They’ll center the stimulation right where you want it most.
G-spot orgasms can be overwhelming and powerful. Play alone or with a partner. Add it to your foreplay or masturbate together. There’s no right way to experience pleasure or play with sex toys. What matters most is that you have a good time and connect with your partner or yourself.
Do you have a favorite vibrator you like to play with? Are g-spot orgasms your thing? Comment below and tell us all about it!
