Not that long ago, the selection of sex toys was scarce. You could get a vibrator or a dildo (or a combo of the two), and that was pretty much it. Thankfully, things have changed quite dramatically. Today, when there are plenty of products on the sex toy market, we can have our pick of naughty items that will make you moan (or scream) with pleasure.
However, even with a broad selection, up until recently, there’s been a pretty big hole in the market when it comes to a specific category — a vibrating squirting dildo.
Now, don’t get us wrong. If you wanted to get a vibrating squirting dildo, you could easily find one that would be a great buddy for years to come. However, if you wanted a silicone, body-safe one, you’d be hard-pressed to find something fitting.
Well, that issue is no more! The new Evolved Novelties vibrating squirting dildo is here to revolutionize the market. This might not seem like a big deal, but it is. Finding an utterly body-safe toy that would vibrate and squirt and have a sturdy suction cup base was no easy task. But thanks to the Evolved Novelties, the issue is no more!
So let’s see how this dido can change your life!
What Is the Evolved Novelties Big Shot Vibrating Squirting Dildo?
If you’re a fan of squirting sex toys, then you’ll love the Evolved Novelties’ newest addition. Appropriately named Big Shot, this ejaculating dildo offers the best of ALL worlds. It can vibrate and squirt. However, more importantly, it is entirely body-safe, considering that it’s made out of luxuriously smooth silicone.
A Dildo That Changed Everything
Big Shot is a large squirting vibrator that’s so realistic that you’ll think you’re holding a real penis in your hand. It’s a latex-free vibrating dildo with a very realistic head and vein textures that, combined with the ejaculating feature, make it one of the best realistic products on the market.
The squirting dildo by Evolved Novelties impacted the market because realistic silicone ejaculating dildos weren’t that readily available. What’s more, Big Shot’s gorgeous appearance and overall functionality make this dildo a complete novelty on the market (if you’ll pardon our pun).
But is the fact that Big Shot is the only realistic squirting dildo on the market everything this toy has going for it? Of course not.
Welcome to the World of the Squirting Dildo By Evolved Novelties
As soon as it hit the market, this powerful multi-speed vibrator dildo was labeled as the perfect toy for gay couples. The very realistic head (and the overall authentic appearance) and the ejaculating feature make this dildo an ideal substitute for a real penis.
Due to the powerful suction cup base, the dildo allows for hands-free play, which you can use for solo and partnered play. But Big Shot is an excellent companion for everyone, which is why it’s the first ejaculating dildos marketed toward everyone (not just the LGBTQ population).
But Why Do People Like Dildo Squirt Toys?
There are plenty of reasons one might opt for a toy with both vibrating and squirting mechanisms. First of all, when it comes to realism, a toy like that takes having sex or masturbating to a whole new level. All realistic dildos aim to provide an exceptionally authentic experience to the user. Still, some of them fall short.
Big Short’s ejaculation feature specifically takes dildo play to a new level. It’s ideal for people who don’t have a penis but love the experience of ejaculation. It’s also a fantastic toy for those who might have trouble finishing during sex. An even better reason to use it in a strap-on harness!
Evolved Novelties Big Shot 101 — Everything You Need To Know
Although we’ve gone over the basic features of the squirting dildo by evolved novelties, to explain just how powerful and impressive this dildo is, let’s go over each feature.
We’ve already mentioned that this toy is completely body-safe as it’s latex and phthalate-free. The two main (and only) materials used in the making of Evolved Novelties Big Shot dildo are silicone and ABS plastic.
Now, why does this matter? Premium silicone toys are the only ones that can be sterilized entirely (if we discount metal and glass ones, of course). Therefore, properly cleaning and maintaining toys, especially one with a cum tube, is vital for the toy’s longevity and your health.
Silicone is naturally non-porous. That means there are no microscopic tears and holes in the material where bacteria can fester. What’s more, unlike some other materials, like TPE and jelly, silicone won’t show signs of wear and tear even after prolonged use.
So, being one of the first body-safe ejaculating dildos on the market is a huge benefit of Big Shot. It makes the toy extra safe and durable.
Overall, Big Shot’s name pretty accurately describes its appearance. With 8 inches in length, this dildo is quite a big boy. Of course, since it has a suction cup, it has an insertable length of 6 inches. But, best believe that’s more than enough, especially considering that the Evolved Novelties dildo is quite a firm toy.
All 6 inches of insertable length have a diameter of between 1,3 and 1,6 inches. The toy is the widest at the very beginning (so, at the head and just below it), which is an excellent feature because it allows you to feel full even if you’re not interested in taking in the full length of the toy.
We’ve already mentioned that the Evolved Novelties dildo is a realistic toy. Several aspects of it make it super realistic:
It comes in several flesh-tone colors
Vein textures on it add an extra layer of realism
The very realistic head (with a squirting hole) takes the whole experience to the next level
The toy has a ball sack above the suction cup
Of course, the expertly designed and incorporated features make Evolved Novelties Big Shot stand out. Although there aren’t many, what Big Shot has is amazing and works beautifully. After all, it’s better to have a few great features than to have dozens that only do a half-job (or nothing at all).
The Vibrating Wonder
One of the toy’s advantages is its powerful vibrating feature. Big Shot’s motor is quite powerful, which allows for ten different (and quite strong) vibrating functions.
As soon as you turn the toy on, you’ll see that Big Shot’s vibes are not for the faint of heart. However, they are rumbly and strong, which is quite a feat considering that this isn’t a toy that only has a vibrating feature. It’s pretty challenging to make a toy with an ejaculation function vibrate that strongly, so that’s a massive plus for the Evolved Novelty team.
Big Shot’s vibrations are easy to shuffle through. The toy has a waterproof two-button control panel. One button controls the vibrations while the other controls the squirting effect. Press the vibration button until you find a pattern that works for you, or shuffle through all ten vibration patterns to see what the toy has to offer.
The vibrations will drain the toy’s charge steadily, but, considering that you have a USB cable included in the packaging, you’ll have no trouble quickly and easily charging this bad boy up again and going for another round.
The Squirting Stunner
Of course, the main selling point of this Evolved Novelty beauty is the squirting function. And, before you ask, don’t worry; this toy doesn’t work by using a Luer Lock syringe’s plunger. Instead, big Shot squirts automatically, which means all you have to do is push the button and watch the toy spit and spatter fake cum all over the place.
As mentioned, the waterproof two-button control panel will allow you to engage both functions.
Big Shot’s ejaculate button is, of course, something you’ll only press once at the very end of your play session. Unlike the one that controls the vibrating feature, this button only has one job — to make the toy cum. To do that, press the button and watch the magic happen!
The Squirting Mechanism
This Evolved Novelties dildo has a pretty simple ejaculating mechanism. The internal cum tube or the reservoir is located near the back of the toy, and you can access it via the squirting quick twist cap. The squirting quick twist cap is easy to take in and out and allows for quick fluid refills and cleanup.
Big Shot’s fluid reservoir has enough space for a hefty amount of fluid. As a result, the ejaculation of the toy will last between 3 and 5 seconds (depending on the viscosity of the fluid you’ve put into it).
Using the squirting mechanism is simple. When you press on the button that’s located further back on the button controls panel, the tubing hanging at the back will get emptied. The fluid will shoot out quickly and forcefully because the toy has a squirt gun effect. But you can also play around and experiment to make it come out at a slower pace.
Now that’s an improvement compared to the older squirting dildos that you have to squeeze hard to make them cum. There are no additional appendages to Big Shot. One simple button is all you need. No silicone bulb is attached to the toy or tubes hanging off it. It’s as simple as it looks!
What Kind Of Fluid Can I Use?
As mentioned, the reservoir only holds enough fluid for one ejaculation. So, if you want to play several times in a row, you’ll need to make fluid refills.
If you like forceful and speedy ejaculation, you can use water as your ejaculation fluid. It will shoot out quickly and effortlessly. On the other hand, if something slower is your style, you can use water-based lube that will ooze out slowly. You can even make a hybrid lube with thicker lubes to drag out the whole experience.
The Supreme Suction Cup
Believe it or not, the suction cup is one of the best features of this Evolved Novelties dildo. That might seem odd, considering what the dildo can do, but it’s true.
The suction cup is robust, which means that you can use the dildo all on your own. It will stick to most surfaces and hold even for the most adventurous riders.
The suction cup allows for outstanding hands-free play and an excellent handle during partnered play.
Evolved Novelties goes all out when it comes to their products. The packaging is beautiful but subtle.
As mentioned, there’s a USB cable included in the packaging. Aside from that, you’ll also find the Evolved Novelties Big Shot in the box, detailed instructions on how to use it (as well as some lovely tips about the ejaculation fluid and the mechanism).
How To Maintain This Beast
Aside from that, the package won’t have any extras. Therefore, you’ll have to get your lubricant and toy cleaner (if you don’t already have those). Of course, given that the toy is high-quality silicone, you don’t have to use a toy cleaner to maintain it. Instead, a warm water rinse with mild soap will do perfectly fine. However, don’t forget to clean your toy before and after each use.
Although silicone is quite durable and resistant, if you store the toy while it’s wet, you might get a nasty surprise the next time you take it out for playtime. A wet environment is the perfect breeding ground for bacteria and mold.
The tubing might be a bit more challenging to clean, but it’s nothing an intense water squirt won’t handle.
When cleaning your toy, remember that you should never maintain a wet environment when storing it. It would be best to dry the toy thoroughly before putting it in a storage pouch or container.
If you haven’t experienced a “blended orgasm” yet, you will very soon, with the help of Jill’s LanditRabbit by Jack and Jill Adult. This rabbit-style vibrator is a pleasurable, multitasking toy that can take your sexcapades to new heights.
For those unfamiliar, rabbit vibrators are a love-child of a clitoral vibrator and a dildo. It is designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the vagina. Notably, a sweet spot inside the vagina called the G-spot.
Jill’s LanditRabbit is a classic-yet-modern rabbit-style vibrator. Read on to discover why this sex toy can help you “land it” every time!
Jack and Jill Adult: Why We Chose Rabbit Vibrators
We’ve decided to include rabbit vibrators in our line of Jack and Jill Adult sex toys for one crucial reason — us ladies need to stick together. One research found that only 18.4% of women can orgasm from intercourse alone. That means that the rest need additional stimulation to get off.
So, it stands to reason that we created a toy that can do just that! Thanks to this silicone bunny, you’ll soon be seeing stars every time you decide to play solo or with a partner.
Genital Touching Sexual Pleasure And Orgasm [Infographic]
What Makes Jill’s LanditRabbit So Amazing
1. The Famous Rabbit Ears
Jill’s LanditRabbit by Jack and Jill Adult features the famous rabbit-ear-inspired clitoral stimulator. That means you get to feel like a true Charlotte from the one Sex and the City episode we remember all too well (“The Turtle and the Hare“) each time you use it.
The rabbit ears earned their popularity for a reason. Aside from looking cute, the shape fits perfectly over your clit. So, you can feel the vibrations and a fluttering motion at the center of your clitoris and the sides.
The clitoral stimulator is flexible, meaning you can maneuver and hold it in places that feel good to you each time. The flexibility is important because different people have different clitoris-to-vulva distances. So, it is hard to find the perfect position stimulating both the clit and the G-spot with nubs sitting in one place.
The stimulator also has its own motor with seven powerful speeds and patterns to choose from. Thanks to this system, you can set the vibe for your external hot spot independently from the shaft.
2. The Shaft
Not many think about the length when buying their first rabbit-style toy, but this is a mistake. Ideally, the shaft should be just long enough to stimulate your G-spot. But if you buy a non-flexible toy that goes too deep or not deep enough, you will miss out on a big part of the whole experience.
The Perfect Length
Jack and Jill Adult rabbit vibrators sport 8.2″ height, 1.3″ width, and 1.5″ depth. The shaft is also gently arched with a unique blunt tip. This particular design perfectly syncs with the vulva, ensuring you hit the right spot every time. In addition, the vibrator tip is slightly broader, providing the ultimate pleasure to your G-spot.
Since the shaft is flexible, you can adjust it to create the perfect angle. Like the clitoral stimulator, the shaft has its own motor with seven mighty speeds and vibrating styles. That way, you can set different stimulation speeds for your internal and external areas.
3. The Material
We usually put toys on or inside the most sensitive parts of our bodies. Although they bring us hours of fun, not all of them are safe enough to be in contact with the skin and soft tissue inside the genitals. Some of the common adult toys have been linked to various side effects ranging from irritation to cancer.
Why Is the Right Material So Important?
The problem is that the vagina rapidly absorbs chemicals without metabolizing them. That is how the harmful substances from toys can enter your bloodstream without being broken down first. For this reason, you should pay special attention to what kind of material your toy consists of.
Our Rabbit Vibrators Are Safe
At Jack and Jill Adult toy store, we closely inspect the materials we use for our adult toys. Jill’s LanditRabbit is made of luxurious, soft silicone, with the handle consisting of durable ABS plastic. The latex is body-safe and phthalate-free, so you can use our rabbit vibrator for prolonged periods without worrying about harming your health.
Another great thing about Jack and Jill’s rabbit vibrators is that they are fully waterproof toys. Hence, you can freely take them to the bath or a shower.
Rechargeable sex toys are good for the environment and great for your pocket! Jill’s LanditRabbit comes with a charging cable included in the price.
How to Care for Jill’s LanditRabbit Vibrator: Tips from Jack and Jill Adult
Keep It Clean
One of the most essential tips for the safe use of any sex toy is to keep it clean. Washing the toy before and after each use is a must if you want to avoid bacteria build-up and risks of infection. The best way to clean the Jill’s LanditRabbit is with the Jack and Jill Toy Cleaner.
But if you ever run out of toy cleaner, you can use warm water and soap instead. Since this rabbit vibrator is a waterproof toy, washing it in a shower or bath after you finish it won’t cause any damage.
The second rule for safely playing with sex toys is using plenty of lube. Lube helps you maintain enough moisture for a smooth glide. This will prevent irritation and tearing of the vaginal tissue.
As previously mentioned, vibrating rabbits usually consist of silicone. However, you can’t use just any lube with silicone toys. For instance, silicone-based lubes can damage the material shortening your toy’s lifespan.
Water-based lubes are a good choice, although you usually have to reapply them more often. For instance, Jack and Jill water-based lubricant is less likely to irritate. In addition, it mixes well with just about any material.
Jack and Jill Adult Superstore: Final Thoughts on Vibrating Rabbits
If you own one and enjoy our LanditRabbit, we would love your feedback! Feel free to explore our website and find more products that we offer.
Want an intense experience that goes a little easier on your wallet? In that case, we recommend trying the Rolling Rabbit, which lets you change rotation direction. Jack and Jill Adult ensure the stock is always full, so take your pick!
When buying sex toys, most women go for either vibrators or dildos. Don’t get us wrong: a good dildo is worth its weight in gold. But times have changed, and sex tech has dramatically evolved since the iconic Hitachi Magic Wand first came out fifty years ago. There are now clit-sucking vibrators that use modern technology to unlock multiple orgasms and the complete satisfaction you’ve been dreaming of.
Clit suction is one of the most efficient ways to intensify clitoral orgasms. Given that most women need such stimulation to climax, adult toys that mimic oral sex are welcome and long overdue. So, let’s talk about oral suction and sonic wave vibrators because the sex toys are leveling up, and we are more than ready to jump on board.
What Is a Clit Suction Toy?
Clit-sucking vibrators deliver intense orgasms on the fly by combining suction, air, and vibration patterns. They have little nozzles that hover over your entire clitoris and use air pressure to create a suction force. Some of the more recent models emit intense sound waves that indirectly stimulate your pleasure nub. Advanced clit suckers can even vibrate at the same time.
Generally speaking, suction toys are supposed to mimic the feeling of oral sex. These pleasure products send pulses deep within your body, creating a more full-body orgasm. Some users even report that the feeling is so intense that it makes them climax in less than sixty seconds.
The toys have an ergonomic design and usually look like an 8. But you can also find models that resemble dapper penguins, flowers, and barnyard animals.
Still, no matter the shape, they all have a nozzle covering the glans clitoris (the part of the clitoris that sticks outside the labia). Furthermore, sonic clitoral stimulators often have a number of exhilarating pleasure settings, allowing you to experiment with different sensations.
Companies like Lelo and Womanizer are currently the leaders on the market, making some of the best clit-sucking vibrators out there. So, you can find models with a bigger mouth, waterproof design, removable head, cruise control, and other special functions.
What’s the Difference Between a Regular Vibrator and a Clit-Sucking Vibrator
Traditional vibrators stimulate only the external nerve endings or the tip of your clitoris. While that is amazing, there’s more to this erogenous zone than we previously thought. Recent studies have discovered that the little nub we call the clitoris is part of a bigger structure of nerve endings extending deeper into your vulva. The famous G-spot is part of it too!
Unlike other toys, clitoral stimulators have suction pads that create deep, satisfying pulses that reach the whole clitoris. They can do that thanks to the innovative technology and special materials the devices consist of.
But the most significant difference between a regular vibrator and a clit-sucking kind is how they make you feel. Some users say that conventional vibrators feel like sitting on a washing machine, while sonic waves resemble standing in front of loud booming speakers. The users generally describe such stimulation as unique, unlike anything they’ve ever experienced.
But Can It Give You an Instant Orgasm?
Word on the street is that clit suckers and sonic waves can give you instant orgasms, and yes, that’s true. Since they engage the entire clitoris, including the G-spot, the sensation can be so powerful that you reach bliss in a matter of minutes.
That being said, just because the sex toy can make you come instantly, it doesn’t mean it will or that it’ll happen every time you use it. So don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t happen the first time you use your clit cuddler. As with any sex toy, it’ll probably take some time.
Most devices include options for adjusting the pressure of the sonic waves. Just take time and experiment with them until you find the one that puts you in fervor.
In addition, some vibrators have both sucking and vibrating features. That means you can begin with the typical vibration modes you are used to and then progress to the intense sonic waves when you’re ready to climax. You can also start with suction and alternate between vibration patterns when the feeling becomes too much to handle. Play with the suction settings and find the combination that works best!
How to Use Oral Suction Vibrators
Warm-up is essential when it comes to any sexual play. So, it would be best to start with manual stimulation first. Apply water-based lubricant and stroke gently and consistently with your fingers, as you usually do while masturbating. When you feel ready, put a bit of lube on the toy and place it over your pleasure clit.
Although it is intended for the clit, you can also use this sex toy on other erogenous zones — for example, your nipples. If the suction is too strong for you, a thicker layer of lubricant can help by creating a barrier between your skin and the toy. But suppose you want to replicate the feeling of oral sex. In that case, you should use lubrication even if you’re not especially sensitive to stimulation.
Clit cuddlers can also be a great addition to partnered sex. Engaging the clit during intercourse increases arousal because it engorges the area around the vaginal canal, making you (or your partner) feel amazing.
The only challenge is to find a way to hold the clit cuddler above the right spot during penetrative sex. But that should not be too different from using any other handheld clitoris stimulator — you need some practice. The best beginner poses are doggy style and missionary. At first, the vulva-owning partner should hold the vibrators to ensure it’s in the right position.
The missionary pose allows you to enjoy the vibrator hands-free since your body weight holds the device in place. On the other hand, in the doggy style, one of the partners can reach between the legs and secure the toy there. The combination of penetration and clit sucking can be mind-blowing.
Do Clit Cuddlers Mean the End of the Oral Sex?
But buying an oral suction toy doesn’t mean the cunnilingus is entirely off the table. You can have your partner work together with it to give you the most intense orgasm ever. All you need to do is hold the toy over your clitoris and let your partner lick the rest of your vulva. They can also use a finger or two to stimulate your G-spot.
A word of caution: if you have piercings on your genitals, you should take them off before using a suction toy. Otherwise, the toy might tug on them, causing pain and discomfort.
How to Know if Oral Suction and Sonic Waves Vibrators Are for You (Before Making a Purchase)
Everyone’s body and sexual preferences are unique. That means someone can have a blast with clit cuddlers and sonic waves, but you might find them uncomfortable. So, if you are still unsure whether you will enjoy this next-generation technology, spend some time loving yourself to find out. Masturbation is the most secure — not to mention the most comfortable — approach to discovering your body’s desires.
So, start slow and take your time. While you touch yourself, trying different speeds, rhythms, and techniques would be best. You will learn what kind of clitoral stimulation gets you going. If you have a partner, you can also ask them to try various oral sex techniques on you.
If you have a chance, visit a local sex toy store. You can get your hands on different models and brands of clit suction vibrators. Check out how heavy, cumbersome, loud, and intense they are. Finding a perfect vibrator takes time and effort. Still, you’ll definitely be happy with the deeper satisfaction you’ll get in return.
How to Choose the Best Clit-Sucking Vibrator
Different brands use different terminology (for example, pleasure air or air pulse). Still, it’s all about the same thing — suction and sonic waves that bring enhanced pleasure to your special spot. But is there any difference between clit suction vibrators you can find on the market?
As with any other sex toy, not every company can offer you the same quality. So, when buying your first oral suction toy, there are some traits to consider, like the material, weight, intensity levels, and additional features.
Regarding sex toys, the right materials matter because they come in direct contact with the sensitive tissue around and inside your genitals. Poor quality materials, like PVC, are more porous, so you can never fully clean them. For this reason, they promote bacteria buildup and irritate. They also contain toxic chemicals called phthalates that can penetrate your tissue and harm your health.
Clit suckers made of silicone are a better option, but not all silicone is created equal. So, you’ll want to opt for a toy made of body-safe silicone that is nonporous. Medical-grade silicone is also an excellent choice since, besides being nonporous, it fits the requirements for use in medical equipment. Aside from being better for your health, medical-grade and body-safe silicone feel more luxurious against your skin.
The rule of thumb is the heavier the toy, the stronger the vibrations.
However, that doesn’t mean you should buy the heaviest vibrator you can find. Sex toys have to be balanced as well. That means the pleasure air and vibrations should go where you need them (such as the contact area) and not elsewhere (like the handle, making it hard to hold for a prolonged period).
Furthermore, having some special requirements will also affect the type of vibrator you choose. For instance, a lighter model might be a better fit if you need a toy you can carry around.
Toys with a number of pleasure settings allow you to explore deeper satisfaction and deliver quick results. In addition, suction-style toys can be powerful. So, having a toy with five intensity settings, for example, can help you slowly adjust to this type of clitoral stimulation. Start with the lowest setting and work your way up.
Times have changed, and sex toys nowadays don’t necessarily have to look like sex toys. Instead, get a cute and stylish clit sucker that you can easily keep on your coffee table and pass off as a decoration.
The best clitoral stimulator comes with a couple of additional quirks. For instance, if you like taking your toys to the shower or bath, you can get a waterproof oral stimulator. Or, if you don’t want to be stuck next to a power plug the entire time, get a USB rechargeable model.
Of course, your new vibrator doesn’t have to have all of these qualities to be worth the investment. Just focus on whatever functions are most important to you.
How Much Does a Clit Cuddler Cost?
The best clit suction toy with body-safe materials generally costs between $60 and $200. Any cheaper, and you might have a problem because such toys are usually made of low-quality, if not unsafe, materials.
How Noisy Should a Clit Sucker Be?
Sex toys that are too noisy spoil the mood and can even be intimidating. That’s why your toy should be as silent as a whisper. Anything less than 50dB at a maximum suction level will let you use it without disturbing your neighbors or roommates.
How to Care for Oral Suction and Sonic Wave Vibrators
As you do with your other bedroom gadgets, you should wash your clit cuddler before and after each use. For that, you can use a sex toy cleaner. But lukewarm water and soap will also do the trick. Only use fragrance-free soap because the scented ones increase the risk of yeast infections.
Next, rinse well, especially if your favorite toy is shaped like a rose, since bacteria can accumulate between the petals. Use a lint-free cloth to dry your toy. Recharge, unplug, and store it in a cool, dry place. Ideally, keeping the toy in the original packaging would be best. Still, breathable satin or silk sacks are good alternatives.
Follow these steps every time you use your clit cuddler. That way, it will be ready whenever you wish to take it out again and play.
What Types of Lube Are Safe?
Using a lubricant with sex toys is an excellent way to reduce friction and avoid irritating your skin. But not every lube is compatible with clit suction toys.
So, if you decide to include lube into your play session with a clit cuddler, we advise opting for a water-based lubricant. That is because most clitoral stimulators consist of silicone. So, using silicone-based lubricants risks damaging the material and shortening your toy’s life span.
The Best Clit Suction Vibrators on the Market
Pleasure is highly subjective, and what feels too much for one person might be too mild for someone else. For this reason, we compiled a list of the best clit suckers, including gentle toys for beginners and powerful vibrators that can make your legs tremble. That way, you can easily find the one that fits your needs.
INYA The Rose Rechargeable Suction Vibe — Rose
You might recognize this rose-shaped vibrator from TikTok. The Rose went viral on this platform thanks to its elegant appearance and powerful performance. In a video that generated 3.9 million views, one user claims that it made her orgasm in only thirty seconds. You can find similar videos on TikTok using the hashtags #TheRoseReview and #TheRoseToy.
As you probably already guessed, The Rose resembles a stemless rose. It features a hole in the middle of the petals that embraces your clit and sucks on it. This sex toy is small and consists of body-safe silicone and ABS plastic.
The Rose uses pressure wave technology to make fluttering waves at seven different speeds — ideal for those chasing the G-spot and prolonged climax. This waterproof oral stimulator lets you take it to your hot tub or a shower for the best pleasure time. The rechargeable model gives you 45 minutes of fun per charge.
Womanizer Liberty — Pink
Womanizer’s Liberty is so good that the famous pop singer, Lily Allen, took part in designing it (her special edition). The Liberty is a smaller version of the Womanizer Premium but much more affordable. Thanks to its sleek travel cover and size, this clitoral stimulator is the perfect toy to take with you on adventures and trips.
The Liberty utilizes pleasure air and light suction for more profound satisfaction and an even gentler murmur. It has six intensity levels and is an excellent beginner air-suction toy. Switch between the intensity settings using two buttons.
Womanizer also made sure this clit sucker had a waterproof design. Another great thing about it is that it is fairly quiet compared to its counterparts. So, it might be an excellent choice if you like getting off in the shower and you need to keep it quiet because of roommates.
Besides giving you multiple orgasms, this Womanizer toy also looks classy. ABS plastic and body-safe silicone ensure your play sessions are as safe as they are pleasurable. Recharge it using a micro USB cable.
Inmi Bloomgasm Passion Petals 10X Silicone Suction Rose Vibrator — Red
The Bloomgasm’s Passion Petals is another great rose clit suction vibrator. It offers ten different settings — three speeds and seven vibration modes- stimulating the entire clitoral area. The toy consists of premium, phthalate-free, body-safe silicone and ABS plastic. On top of that, you can use it in the shower since this is a waterproof oral stimulator.
But good things don’t end there: the Passion Petals also alternates as a penetrating sex toy! The other half of this toy is a curved shaft with gentle ridges that massage the sensitive nerve endings around the G-spot. So, you can use it as a clit stimulator, penetrating toy, or combine the two ways of stimulation for deeper satisfaction.
LELO Sona 2 Cruise — Cerise
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise is an improved version of the Lelo Sona Cruise. Sona 2 retains all the best characteristics, like the automatic Sona Cruise Control technology, which makes sure the intensity doesn’t drop when you press the toy against your body. But Lelo Sona 2 also has twelve settings to choose from, so you will feel it in your G-spot.
Sona 2 sonic massager is made of 100% medical-grade silicone, durable and safe. The extra-soft silicone exterior also feels fantastic against your sensitive flesh. After recharging, Lelo Sona 2 gives you two hours of undiluted pleasure. While a bit on the pricey side, it’s worth every penny.
LELO Sila Sonic Massager — Pink
Sila is Lelo’s latest sonic massager. Similar to the previous clit cuddlers from the same company, like Lelo Sona 2, it is meant to spread a gentle clitoral stimulation equally throughout the entire clitoris. The sensation is described as a slower and more sensual buildup to climax. But this version comes with an upgrade: its broader nozzle can encompass more skin (bigger surface), making it suitable for a wider range of anatomy.
Sila features eight vibration settings that allow you to explore sonic waves and make a sensation perfect and liberating. In addition, this waterproof oral stimulator is USB rechargeable, which makes it super practical.
When Should You Stop Using Oral Suction Toys?
Clit suckers cause orgasms by indirect stimulation. Because they are not making direct contact with your skin, you can use them for as long as you like, going for as many rounds as you wish.
That said, some users have reported that clit suckers caused blood blisters. Although these claims are rare and unverified, you should still be careful. Listen to your body and stop experimenting with sonic wave intensities if you feel discomfort or pain.
Using sex toys can have many benefits for your physical and mental health. But unlike any other toy, clit cuddlers take those benefits to a new level by promising quicker, better, and stronger orgasms. Moreover, they feel more comfortable because they do not come in direct contact with your clitoris, only hover above it. That allows you to continue even after you climax, making those multiple orgasm dreams come true.
Now that you’ve learned everything there is to know about clit-sucking vibrators; you are probably itching to take yours out and feel complete satisfaction. Be careful, listen to your body, and ride those waves of pleasure!
It’s been a while since we’ve been this excited about a new line of bullet vibrators — and this one costs less than $65! Jackie Love Bullet is a small but powerful sex toy from our own Jack and Jill Adult!
But what makes this little rechargeable bullet vibrator different from others on the market? You can already see that it looks amazing, so let’s talk about what it can do!
Since bullet vibrators are generally meant for external use, people often think that size isn’t an important feature. But just like with any other sex toy, the wrong size can spoil the fun. We put a lot of thought into creating a rechargeable bullet of perfect dimensions.
Jackie Love Bullet vibrator is small enough to let you easily find and stimulate that one tiny spot and make you go wild. At the same time, it is not too small, so you won’t have trouble grabbing hold of it. Forget about everything else — the ideal proportions alone are enough to turn this little buddy into your new best friend.
We spared no expense in the making of the Jackie Love vibrating bullet. Consisting of body-safe silicone and ABS plastic, both of these materials are safe and long-lasting.
Easy Settings and Different Speeds
Vibrating adult toys are among the most popular sex toys because they often feature a range of speeds and vibrating patterns to tickle your fancy. Bullets tend to be buzzy, delivering pleasure directly to the clitoris.
With seven escalating speeds and 13 pulsing vibration patterns, the Jackie Love bullet is no exception. That means you will find the ideal vibe to increase your climax quota and have longer, deeper, and more intense orgasms.
But what makes the difference between our toy and other bullets is how much power it holds. The motor in Jackie Love is solid and durable. You can even place it in penetrative sex toys, like dildos and strap-ons, and still feel its powerful vibrations.
The two-button interface is also pretty simple to use. The buttons’ position makes them easily accessible during action. But thanks to the smart design, you can also put the bullet vibrator in your bag without worrying it will go off in the middle of a subway ride.
Long Battery Life
At Jack and Jill, we care about both your pocket and the environment. That’s why we’ve created a rechargeable bullet. When the petite little package arrives at your door, inside, you will find an included cable along with your new vibrating bullet. Once charged, the toy will provide you with thirty to forty minutes of continuous play.
If you have roommates or exceptionally thin walls, you probably want a sex toy that doesn’t make too much noise. Luckily, this rechargeable bullet is so discreet that it’ll help your private time stay private. So, you can freely enjoy your solo play session or sex time without cluing your neighbors in.
How to Use Jackie Love Bullet
If you need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, rest assured — according to one study, 36,6% of women need it too. But necessary or not, clitoral pleasure feels incredible. So, why not throw it into the mix anyway? With the help of Jackie Love Rechargeable Bullet, you will get hot and ready for action in no time.
You should have no trouble using this sex toy, no matter your sexual experience or inexperience. First, simply wash the vibrating bullet with warm water and soap, pat it dry, and add lube. Next, gently press the toy against your clitoris and use the buttons to find the type of vibration that feels the best for you. Then, enjoy the ultimate satisfaction only Jacky Love can provide!
How to Care for Jack and Jill Adult Toys
When it comes to sex toys, hygiene is everything. A general rule of thumb is to wash your toys before and after each use to avoid infections. In addition, it would be best to use special sex toy cleaners, such as Jack and Jill Toy Cleaner. That said, warm water and soap should do the job just fine, too.
After you clean your rechargeable bullet, leave it out in the open to dry. Store it in a dark and dry place, preferably in the original packaging.
Another essential thing to consider is the type of lube you use with your bullet. For instance, silicone lube can damage silicone toys. So, when using your Jackie Love bullet, it might be best to opt for a water-based lube.
Discreet, powerful, and petite — Jackie Love rechargeable bullet is hard to beat. It is compact and lightweight, making it great to hold and maneuver. Likewise, it offers a healthy selection of speed settings to flip between. The highest quality materials provide a luxurious feel while being safe for your body and health.
This sex toy is of perfect size and can fit in most bags (perfect for travel). It also comes in small packages that look inconspicuous if you have nosy neighbors. So, if you want a nice rumbly power that won’t break your budget, the Jackie Love bullet is your best option.
Aside from being straight-up amazing, sex toys also have numerous health benefits. When you use a sex toy, you might get more than you bargained for. Sexual pleasure is pretty much a guarantee. But did you know that using sex toys can also regulate your blood pressure, relieve stress, and improve the state of your pelvic floor?
Many women don’t understand just how many health benefits even a sex toy can have. If your friend, who happens to be a former nurse, tells you how genital vibration can help you with physical and mental health issues, listen to her. She knows her stuff.
Since many people don’t know what sex toys can do for them, we’re diving into all the perks of vibrator use!
Sex Toys Beyond the Sexual Satisfaction: Women’s Health
Using sex toys to regulate physical or mental health isn’t exactly a novel idea. Vibrators predate electricity, and they were used to “treat” made-up states in women across the globe. Today, such misogynistic notions are well outdated. Still, the fact remains that vibrators (among other sex toys) can help you improve both physical and mental health.
So, you’re not the only one if you found yourself praising your clit cuddler like the We-Vibe Melt for getting you through the pandemic. Many people found solace in using sex toys (both pre and during the pandemic).
There are even medical data to back you up. A recent study found that women’s health can greatly benefit from sex toys. Vibrators can help you improve your urinary and reproductive systems as well as your vascular and mental health. The same study states that both men and women can reap these benefits.
So let’s see what precisely one vibrator can do for your body and mind, shall we?
Increase Your Odds of Survival (With a Vibrator)
Although we’ve spent the previous few paragraphs praising sex toys for their magnificent capabilities, we have to say that simply using sex toys won’t ensure you’re completely healthy.
But it can improve your odds of living a longer life. How?
Well, vibrator use (or any sex toys, really) can improve your cardiovascular health. Frequent masturbation can keep your heart healthy. But, of course, it’s not a substitute for healthy living and regular exercise, nor will it prevent heart disease. Still, now and then, a bit of solo activity can help you keep those cholesterol levels down.
Studies Link Sex Toys With Better Heart Health
A nationally representative study at the Michigan State University found that women who experience more sexual pleasure and sexual satisfaction have lower chances of getting hypertension. Hypertension is high blood pressure that can often lead to heart attacks and even stroke.
But why is that? When women orgasm, their heart rate goes up right before and during the orgasm. Then, it steadily goes down sometime after the orgasm is finished. This might sound familiar to you, as it’s the purpose of high-intensity workouts (to get your blood pressure up and then down and increase your blood flow).
So, orgasming is kind of like exercising. One orgasm is the equivalent of a treadmill walk of about 1.7 miles per hour at an admirable 10% incline. Women who frequently achieve orgasms have a better chance of maintaining their heart health.
Increased blood flow has another fringe benefit because it keeps your immune system in good shape.
And Improve Your Sexual Health
Sex toys can do so much more than regulate our blood pressure. Both men and women can (and do) benefit from exercises such as Kegels. However, using a vibrator can also strengthen the pelvic floor muscles.
As we age, our pelvic floors get weaker (as does the rest of our body). However, we mustn’t let them deteriorate completely. The pelvic floor is integral for not only sexual health but also the proper function of our urinary tracts as well.
Regular sexual activity and penetrative sex can aid in keeping our pelvic floor nice and tight. But if you’re sans partner, don’t worry; a sex toy will do a great job.
Doing Kegels, or clenching and unclenching your pelvic floor muscles while a vibrator is inside you, is an excellent way to keep your muscles strong and in optimal shape.
When it comes to strengthening the pelvic floor, the type of vibrator doesn’t matter much. You can opt for anything from the small Mini Swan Wand to the much bigger Fun Factory Sundaze.
Better Bladder Control
One of the advantages of having a strong pelvic floor is better bladder control. We know that it might be challenging to link penetrative sex (with a person or a sex toy) and bladder control, but hear us out. As we said, vibrators can do more for women’s health than just enhance sexual pleasure.
According to a national survey and a systematic review done at the University of New Mexico, women who engage in frequent sexual activity (including sexual stimulation and penetration) have stronger pelvic floor muscles.
Furthermore, they also have fewer issues with the urinary tract. For example, urinary incontinence, the most common pelvic floor dysfunction, isn’t an issue for these women because a stronger pelvic floor allows them better bladder control.
A Healthier Vagina
When buying vibrators, many of us only think of them in terms of sexual pleasure and sexual stimulation. We rarely think that using a vibrator can help us with anything other than reaching an orgasm (or, if we’re lucky, multiple orgasms).
But sex toys improve our sexual health. Studies have shown that women who use a vibrator have healthier vaginas. With time, our vaginas lose their natural elasticity. They also become more short and narrow. One way to ensure our vaginas maintain their elasticity is to have frequent sex (or masturbate regularly).
When we get aroused, the lining of our vaginas and our vaginal walls produce secretion. This keeps everything well moisturized. And we all know that moisturization is vital when it comes to keeping ourselves young and plump. Moisture helps with elasticity which means that masturbation that involves vaginal penetration keeps our vaginas young!
Not only do vibrators offer plenty of health benefits, but women who regularly masturbate are more likely to do self-exams of their genital area. Furthermore, they are more likely to schedule regular appointments with their gynecologist and take care of their sexual health.
Women who have vaginismus know just how difficult that condition is. It’s hard to believe that sex toys improve our muscle tonus so that we can deal with this horrible condition, but it’s true.
A sex toy company rarely promotes only sexual pleasure. Instead, most of them also focus on sexual health and preach sex-positivity. That’s why you’ll find many companies in the sex toy industry that put a lot of effort into sexual health promotion and offer toys (or better said, different devices) that can help with various conditions (vaginismus included).
For example, the She-ology Dilator Set is an excellent pick for women who experience a lot of pain during penetration.
Menopause and Sex Toys
Kind of like erectile dysfunction in men, menopause happens to every woman sooner or later. But menopausal symptoms can wreak havoc on a woman’s body. Aside from hot flashes, migraines, mood swings, troubles sleeping, and a slowed metabolism, women in menopause also experience vaginal dryness and a low sex drive.
Having sex during menopause can be a scary prospect. Many women find sex during menopause not as pleasurable as it was or even painful. Considering what ordeal menopause is, it’s difficult to comprehend that one sex toy can be a game-changer there.
But it can. A vibrator (or any similar sex toy), paired with a lot of lube and some goodwill, can change how a woman treats her body during menopause. Vibrators can even become medical devices during this time.
As our estrogen levels drop during menopause, our vaginas lose elasticity and moisture, making them more fragile. Furthermore, our vaginal linings become more thin and dry, and our vaginal openings shorten.
Vaginal Dryness and Erectile Dysfunction
One in three women experiences severe vaginal dryness that leads to painful sex during menopause.
Sex toys can help significantly here. They will help with arousal, but they will also help women relax enough for sexual intimacy. Vibrator use can dramatically improve menopausal sex and even reignite a sexual relationship.
They can also help with the low sex drive. Because a sex toy can help with arousal, vibrator use can increase sexual desire.
What’s more, because middle-age doesn’t just affect women but also influences erectile function in men, vibrators can lend a helping hand on more than one front. That is a massive benefit for both men and women struggling to maintain their sexual spark in middle age.
A vibrator is an excellent substitute for an erect penis in bed. The notion that you should only use it for solo play is outdated and wrong. So, vibrators can improve your sex life and sexual intercourse in many ways.
Vibrators Can Boost Your Sex Life
Couples who experience dry spells after decades together often turn to relationship therapy (or marital therapy). Sexual and relationship therapy is no longer the taboo it once was, which is a fantastic improvement that we should all take advantage of.
Although there’s no one perfect “sexual medicine” for couples who struggle with sex, vibrator use is one of the better solutions. No matter the issue a couple is struggling with, a sex toy can offer a lending hand.
On the other hand, for couples who are struggling with menopausal symptoms or need help with delayed ejaculation, as explained before, sex toys can help on both fronts. That’s why sex toys play a prominent role in plenty of sex and relationship therapy sessions.
Vibrators and Physical Health
If we take a step back away from the notion of sexual medicine, we’ll see that a sex toy can also help with some other issues. First, of course, various sexual activities can help us maintain our health (especially sexual health). Still, to not rely on a partner (and their sexual prowess), we can opt for a bit of solo activity and use sex toys to relieve some issues.
You’ve probably noticed that when you reach orgasm, you get sleepy. You might have also noticed that you sleep better after spending a portion of the night rolling in the sheets. But why is that?
When we climax, our bodies go through a whole ordeal. As mentioned before, our heart rate shoots up during an orgasm and then gradually goes down. What’s more, our blood pressure stabilizes. These are excellent conditions for falling asleep.
While that’s true, many other things also happen after an orgasm. For example, when we climax, our brains release various chemicals. One of those is prolactin.
Prolactin is a hormone that some women are familiar with because it plays a vital role in breastfeeding and lactation. But it also affects our sleep. It’s a growth-sleep hormone that promotes rapid eye movement. As some of you know, rapid eye movement or the REM stage of sleep is the stage when we dream. It’s also the stage that precedes the deep sleep stage (which is when our bodies and minds rest the most during the night and regenerate).
So, having an orgasm right before bed is an excellent way to improve your sleep schedule. Vibrator use before bed can ensure that you fall asleep quickly and effortlessly and rest more (because you’ll fall into the deep sleep stage quicker and stay in it longer).
Less Stress and Anxiety
Prolactin isn’t the only hormone our brains release during and after an orgasm. When we climax, our brains get flooded with different chemicals, which are mood boosters.
If you’ve never heard of the feel-good hormones, you’re missing out on some fun knowledge.
Oxytocin and serotonin (also known as the bliss chemicals) are the two primary hormones released during an orgasm. Oxytocin, or the love hormone, is the hormone responsible for muscle contractions (and ejaculation). The more oxytocin our brains release, the stronger our orgasms.
But oxytocin also does so much more than ensuring we come like we never did before. When our brains release this hormone, we feel elated, bonded with our partner, generally happy, and less stressed. Oxytocin also promotes wound healing and better immune response.
So, it’s logical that frequent orgasms can generally help us reduce stress (among other things).
Orgasms also affect anxiety. Sex and masturbation can be excellent tools of distraction. They help us relax, release the feel-good hormones in our bodies, and generally boost our moods.
Orgasms also help us release tension and regulate our breathing. Those who have mild or severe anxiety know just how important breathing patterns are when stress hits.
Orgasms affect our nervous systems. So, they can be an excellent remedy for neurological conditions such as anxiety and depression. But, of course, sexual medicine won’t completely solve your issues. It especially won’t be as effective as therapy and medication. Still, having an orgasm or two every day can help you feel better.
We can’t talk about the feel-good hormones without mentioning all the wonderful things they do for our bodies. For example, oxytocin and dopamine can help you reduce pain.
Now, we’re not talking about severe pain here. For example, the pain that follows surgical interventions after a spinal cord injury or serious conditions such as multiple sclerosis requires serious medication. But when it comes to regular, everyday pain, such as the one that accompanies periods or migraines, orgasms can help us there.
According to a study done at Harvard University, the feel-good hormones are stored in the pituitary gland and are released during pleasurable acts. Now, orgasms aren’t the only thing that will trigger their release. You can also reduce pain by releasing these hormones during exercise or other pleasurable activities.
However, masturbating is easier (and more pleasurable) than exercising. That’s why many people opt to use sexual sensations to trigger the release of the feel-good hormones.
Women who frequently used a vibrator reported significant improvements concerning period pains and pains in general. The genital vibration, paired with an orgasm, quickly and efficiently lessens cramps and the pain that goes along with them.
Exploring Your Body and Sexuality
So, it’s clear that vibrators and sex toys, in general, can help us maintain physical health. However, owning and using a sex toy can do wonders for our mental health. Aside from affecting stress, anxiety, and depression, using a sex toy can also improve our mental health by boosting our confidence and helping us get intuned with our bodies.
Sex toy companies promote health, better sexual function, and pleasure. But because sex toys can help us get familiar with our bodies and explore, they also encourage other health topics like body positivity and confidence.
Today, sex toy companies are more focused on ensuring their clients get the most out of their products. However, one of the fringe benefits of vibrators (and of the most important points in various health topics) is that they allow us to gain more body confidence.
By using sex toys, we explore our bodies, get familiar with our likes and dislikes, and learn how to pleasure ourselves. That means we don’t have to rely on other people to satisfy us. It also means we gain more confidence in bed and life. When you know what you want, it’s easy to ask for it. What’s more, it’s also easy to expect it.
Of course, the most essential function of a vibrator is the sexual function. It’s a tool that, depending on the type, has different settings and capabilities that will allow us to experience a sexual sensation we might not have experienced before.
As with anything in life, we might like that sexual sensation, or we might not. But the vital thing is that we can explore it. Vibrators allow us to explore our bodies and do something to ourselves without relying on others and their sexual prowess.
In other words, with a vibrator, we can reach orgasm with no help, in many ways, and learn to please ourselves.
Closing the Orgasm Gap
For some reason, people are still unwilling to talk about the orgasm gap. But, on average, in heterosexual relationships, women orgasm fewer times than men. Considering that we’re capable of multiple orgasms, that seems odd.
91% of men report climaxing during intercourse, while only 64% of women can say the same. That means there’s a massive discrepancy between men and women in heterosexual relationships.
But how can vibrators help?
Well, women orgasm more frequently during masturbation. The satisfaction rate is much higher when a silicone, ABS plastic, or TPE penis is involved. Does that mean that men are bad at sex?
No, of course not. Women need consistency of stimulation to orgasm. Sometimes the tiniest thing can throw us off rhythm and ruin the entire experience. A vibrator is much more reliable when it comes to consistency.
Of course, that doesn’t mean we should forgo men entirely. It does, however, mean that we can use vibrators and make good use of their intended sexual function even when we aren’t flying solo. Vibrators can help us close the orgasm gap; we need to give them a chance during coupled play.
Heterosexual men report lesser levels of satisfaction during intercourse that involves sex toys. But before you let that discourage you, consider that men use vibrators and other sex toys to pleasure their partners.
So, their lower levels of sexual satisfaction make sense. Bisexually identified men report the same or higher levels of sexual pleasure when using sex toys. That proves that sex toys really can help close the orgasm gap.
A Few Parting Words
Overall, vibrators (and specifically genital vibration) can help you boost your sex life and help maintain physical and mental health. They are excellent devices that can practically transform your sex life. All you have to do is pick one and let it change you!
There are millions of men suffering from impotence, also known as erectile dysfunction or ED. Some of them seek professional medical advice on what to do. Others undergo surgery that’s potentially dangerous for their lives. To many, a satisfying sex life seems like a distant dream, and it’s devastating, to say the least, to see so many good men under so much pain.
Of course, there are also millions of men who will openly state that there’s no cause for alarm. Nevertheless, plenty of them has tried to treat ED (or moderate ED, at the very least) using an external penile prosthetic device called a penis extender. And while penis extenders are primarily used to enhance the man’s member, they can also help recover erectile function. This article will explain how they do that.
Penis Extension Explained
Now, we can’t jump into ED treatment just yet. First and foremost, we need to explain penis extension to the uninitiated.
An extender is an external penile prosthesis that men use to enhance themselves. It’s a tool that increases one’s penis size and, supposedly, helps promote sexual recovery.
Depending on what kind of tool you need, extenders usually come in one of three different forms:
Out of the three types, penile extender kits are the ones that most closely resemble what medical devices ought to look like. So naturally, the other two types are also medical. Still, they look more like traditional sex toys and are often marketed as such.
So, what does a typical penile extender kit look like? Well, it usually contains three sections. The first section is called the Basal ring; that part is where we insert the penis, and it’s specially designed to lay comfortably against our pelvis.
The second section of an extender kit is a bit more complicated. It contains a pair of screws, as well as both hexagonal and round cylinders. This is the most movable part of the device, and by adjusting the cylinders, you effectively adjust the traction tension of your penis.
Finally, there’s the front piece, where the tip of the penis is fastened. In other words, it’s the type of device where you put your entire penis in and adjust it slowly to stretch it and gain length. Some peer-reviewed studies have been done to find out how effective these types of extenders can be. Their results have mostly been positive, with additional research still very much on the way.
Penis Extender Study [Infographic]
Most penis sleeves, also known as penis sheathes, actually do look like sex toys. One such sleeve, more often than not, looks like a hollowed-out dildo, usually with its glans exposed. Now, while they may look like sex toys, they are every bit the medical devices as extender kits are. Some of the other names for this device include cock sleeves, penis enhancers, and penis extensions.
Some sleeves have a smoother interior chamber, allowing for a solid grip on your penis shaft. Others, however, happen to have a ribbed internal chamber with various nodes that tease your member as you’re having sex. The device works in such a way that both partners can achieve sexual pleasure during penetrative intercourse. There are even sleeves that you can place around a flaccid penis before the act.
The Elator, and other penis extenders like it, don’t look like a typical sleeve. Instead, it’s a simple device that consists of two rings and two rods. The rods go along the underside of the shaft. One of the rings goes around the base of the penis to constrict blood flow (much like a cock ring might). The other goes just under the head.
There are two main selling points with this type of extender. Firstly, it lets you have a satisfying sexual experience without even having an erection. Secondly, due to its design, it exposes the penis almost completely, allowing you to feel everything during any sexual intercourse.
Different Types of Penis Sleeves
We’ve touched on the subject of extender kits before and how they help extend the man’s penis. So, here, we will focus primarily on regular penis sleeves. And before we delve into how they work, we need to classify them first.
A complete sheathe covers the entirety of the penis, from the base to the glans. Depending on the model, they can be made of silicone, rubber, plastic, or a combination of those materials. The softer the material is, the more likely it will feel like natural skin.
There are also sleeves with a base ring where you can place your testicles for added pleasure, as well as options with a built-in vibrator. The latter can stimulate the woman’s G-spot during penetrative sex, satisfying both partners in the process.
Unlike complete sheathes, partial ones don’t cover everything. Instead, they leave the glans exposed to enhance sexual pleasure for the man. Even when flaccid, the glans are highly sensitive, so any penetrative stimulation will result in a pleasurable experience.
A harness sleeve is essentially a strap-on dildo but with a central opening where a man inserts his penis. These support devices are usually made out of a thicker material, like plastic, and come with harnesses that you can strap on to prevent them from slipping off your member during sex.
How Do Penis Extenders Work?
Once again, there’s a distinction to be made here between sleeves that are used for sexual enhancement purposes and extender kits (and other support sleeves) that help treat sexual dysfunction. An extender kit, as we mentioned earlier, is not a sex toy. Instead, it’s a device that you use over a long period to achieve permanent lengthening. So, let’s go over the kits first.
To use a kit, you need to lube it up, preferably with water-based lubricants. Once you do, place your penis through the basis and fasten your glans to the front piece. Then, according to your routine, turn the screws and set the pistons to your target length for the day. Leave it on for a minimum of three hours each day, and only increase the number of hours as you progress down your routine.
Penis sleeves work a little easier than that. Once again, you have to lube up your penis and your device. Next, insert the penis while it’s half-erect. You will want it to reach full erection once it’s inside of the device. If you can’t get an erection by any chance, make sure that the extender you have is for both flaccid and erect penises.
Using Penis Extenders to Treat Erectile Dysfunction
There’s a good reason why some penis extenders are marketed as ED support sleeves. Health articles and current scientific research both agree that sleeves can not only enhance one’s sex life but also help treat ED.
A significant percentage of men will report suffering from some form of impotence. Usually, it’s moderate ED that passes after a while. But severe ED is not rare, and it can have devastating effects on a man’s life. A common side-effect of having ED is premature ejaculation, and suffering from it can also lead to infertility, or rather, difficulty in even conceiving a child.
There are multiple potential causes of ED. Some include medical conditions such as prostate cancer, multiple sclerosis, diabetes, sleep disorders, anxiety, stress, depression, and numerous cardiovascular problems. Other causes derive from bad habits, like excessive drinking, smoking, doing drugs, or engaging in extreme activities with lots of health risks (rafting, parkour, snowboarding, extreme martial arts, etc.).
With all that in mind, can penis extenders help with ED? The answer depends on what kind of extender you get. Purchase one that fits well and offers you pleasure during intercourse. You can gradually start to see results as your erections become more frequent with each passing day. However, the wrong type of extender can significantly harm you, so be careful what you’re buying and always do your research.
If you’re using an extension kit, it might take a while to achieve your goal. However, we advise that you stick to it through the end, as it will provide less immediate but more permanent results than a cock sleeve.
Pros and Cons of Using a Penis Extender
Naturally, penis extenders are more than merely one of many non-surgical strategies to enhance one’s penis and can serve other purposes, too. But, once again, we will mainly focus on penis sleeves in this article, as they are a bit more common and, depending on who you ask, a bit more fun than kits. So, let’s quickly go over all of the advantages and disadvantages of using these particular types of enhancement devices.
A penis extender can work on either erect or flaccid penises, providing pleasure irrespective of the organ’s firmness
Depending on the design, they can pleasure both partners in different ways
They are easy to wash and maintain
Unlike some other methods, they don’t have prolonged health effects (if used correctly)
They boost the confidence and self-esteem of users
They come in various shapes, sizes, materials, and settings options.
They can be pretty pricy
Depending on the material, they can get damaged quickly if too much force is applied
Some materials may cause allergic reactions in certain users
While it may increase your penis, it does not increase your stamina
Unlike an extension kit, a sleeve will only provide you with a temporary extension.
Other Types of ED Treatments
Penis pumps are relatively common among sexual enhancement devices. They enlarge the penis using vacuum suction, giving it extra girth in the process. And while they are popular and relatively safe, they don’t produce permanent results. In other words, we would have to use it over and over again before every single intercourse.
Cock rings, also known as tension rings and constriction rings, are small devices that go around the base of the penis, constrict the flow of blood, and keep it hard. Men frequently use them in conjunction with penis pumps and other accessories. Sadly, they share the same unique disadvantage as penis pumps insofar as they offer short-lasting results.
When in doubt, you can always try to pop a pill. Sexual medicine (sex med, for short) has progressed quite a bit over the past few decades, and there are now medications with FDA approval that can help men get and maintain an erection. The most common ones are Cialis, Levitra, and Viagra. But, of course, we strongly advise you to see a medical professional before trying any of the medications mentioned above.
By far the most intrusive and arguably the most dangerous, surgical implants are widespread nowadays. A typical penile implant is a rigid rod (or semi-rigid, depending on what you need) that is inserted alongside the shaft of the penis, with an inflation pump that provides air and fills the rod up. The process will essentially give the man an erection at any point, but it’s incredibly invasive and a potential hazard.
Sometimes, the real reason behind erectile dysfunction lies in something negative that’s happening in the man’s life. With that in mind, all the man has to do is seek professional help and talk his problems over with a doctor or a psychiatrist. Anything from stress, anxiety, and panic attacks can directly affect the man’s sex drive, so solving those issues becomes crucial. And yes, a simple, honest conversation can help.
Penis Enlargement and ED Treatment: A Summary
If we take all the ED treatment options into account, few are as non-invasive and effective as penis extenders. So, if you do your research and find the type of extender that works for you specifically, you can slowly get back in the game. In a matter of months, or even weeks, your erection will be back in full force, and your sex life will change once again for the better.
Luckily, if you suffer from ED, you can get one of many medical devices or sex toys that help with erections. This article will cover essential details specifically related to cock rings and how they can help treat ED. In addition, we will cover a few other methods that might help you have an erect penis at any point during the day.
Of all the medical conditions that men can suffer from, few are as distressing and challenging to handle as erectile dysfunction or ED. Not being capable of getting or maintaining an erection can have severe consequences for the man’s self-esteem, as well as both physical and mental health. While said issues are common and usually don’t last too long, they can get severe enough to warrant professional medical advice. Even better news, many sex toys on the market today can assist with ED issues
Erectile Dysfunction Explained
But before we move on to the cock rings themselves, we need to talk about ED in depth. And to talk about treating ED, we must understand how erections work.
So, how do men get an erection? It all has to do with muscles, blood vessels, and our reaction to external stimuli.
When a man is aroused, our nerves release certain chemicals that increase the amount of blood that flows into the penis. Each penis consists of two erection chambers called the corpus cavernosum. These chambers are spongy tissue that relaxes and traps the blood inside, making the organ firm.
When we reach the climax, the muscular tissue contracts, and the blood trapped within flows back into the circulation. Our penis slowly goes flaccid, refilling itself with new blood.
A flaccid penis will shrink in cold weather and fall asleep more often than not. The shifting size directly results from the balance of blood that enters and exits the corpus cavernosum. And yes, it can retract even if the man feels worried, embarrassed, sad, or depressed. In other words, it’s completely normal.
ED is more common than one might think. Roughly a third of all men globally suffer from ED, be it minor or significant.
So, how do we diagnose this issue? Well, ED occurs due to one of the following causes:
As you can see, of all the physical and mental health conditions men suffer from, ED seems to have the biggest number of possible origin points. In other words, instead of an ED ring, you might just need to apply a few lifestyle changes. We will cover that a little later in the article. Let’s focus on how a cock ring treats erectile dysfunction.
What Is a Cock Ring?
Researching devices that help us maintain an erection and achieve better sex, we might run into several different terms for what is essentially the same tool:
A cock ring is a circular, hollow sexual aid that men place around the base of the penis to keep it hard. There are several types of these rings based on where we put them:
The third type is more or less self-explanatory. We take our ring and strap it around the base of our testicles. As a result, the scrotum will swell up. Not only does it help maintain an erection, but it’s also an excellent way to spice up intimate times. However it’s a good idea to shave off any pubic hair before placing this ring to avoid any discomfort.
Penile rings, on the other hand, only go around the base of the penis, roughly around the area where the blood flows directly into (and out of) the organ. To be more precise, the ring goes near the exact same place where another organ helps keep the blood inside, a band of fiber called Tunica albuginea. So, if we have trouble with either blood flow or the Tunica itself, the ring will be our best bet of keeping the blood in.
Sometimes, people combine cock rings with vacuum erection devices (also known as vacuum pumps) to promote blood flow into the penis. And if done right, this vacuum method can help a man reach powerful orgasms.
Cock Rings Categorized
Constriction rings come in various shapes and sizes. Still, the most common classification refers to what they’re made of or contain. As such, the most common ones include:
There are many stretchy silicone sexual aids out there, and cock rings made out of this material seem to be the most common. They are also the cheapest rings money can buy and the easiest to clean and maintain.
However, they require some getting used to because a tight-fitting ring can permanently injure the user. Even flexible silicone is still firm enough to restrict too much blood flow if it’s a mismatch in size.
Adjustable Cock Rings
An adjustable cock ring is an ED device with different fasteners and adjusters. For example, they can contain velcro, a string, or any other flexible material that enables us to properly lock them in place depending on how hard we want to restrict blood flow to our penis.
Vibrating Cock Rings
A vibrating cock ring, as its name suggests, contains a vibrator tiny enough to stimulate our partner’s clitoris during intercourse. The vibrations might also make the male partner feel good. Still, generally speaking, they are generally viewed as a sex toy for two. All you have to do is manage settings properly and adjust the vibration speed to a level where you both feel comfortable.
Solid Cock Rings
A solid ED device is there for experienced users who want to try something more challenging. Usually, that involves hard metal rings with no adjustments and no flexibility. However, we generally tend to avoid rings that can harm us, so we strongly recommend using a flexible, soft silicone option unless it’s a medically reviewed item meant for ED treatments.
Other Benefits of Using Penis Rings
Of course, we won’t just use a penis ring if we feel our penis failing and staying flaccid frequently. In fact, there are plenty of other reasons why gentlemen would get a hold of some tension rings and utilize them in the bedroom. So, let’s get over some of the benefits that cock rings bring aside from handling impotence.
ED rings work wonders when combined with a vacuum erection device. Affixing a penis pump to a member that already has a ring at its base will help maintain an erection and significantly expand the organ.
Because of how it swells up and all of the nerve endings, our penis with a cock ring on will be more sensitive than usual. And that is always a plus, no matter if we’re having intercourse, oral sex, or even if we masturbate. Having a ring on might awaken certain sensations we never knew we could feel before.
Perfect for Both Partners
Women can feel immense satisfaction while having intercourse with a man who has a cock ring. It allows them to feel their partner in different and exciting ways. And as we mentioned earlier, specific rings come with additional vibrators that help stimulate the clitoris. So, depending on the ring, the possibilities can be endless.
More Intense Oral Sex
Oral pleasure is an integral part of any healthy sexual relationship. Utilizing a device that can constrict blood flow and maintain an erection will give the partner more time to pleasure you orally. Furthermore, since your penis is more sensitive with the device on, you’ll enjoy the act in different and exciting ways.
More Intense Handjobs
A typical handjob might not sound as exciting as receiving oral sex or regular intercourse. Still, if done right, it can raise intimacy between partners. That level rises even further if the male partner uses a penile ring. Not only can the other partner satisfy them via regular handjobs, but they can also toy with the ring itself for additional pleasure.
Improving Anal Intercourse
Partners who enjoy anal intercourse will appreciate the use of cock rings. The device serves two functions here. The first is roughly the same as with any other form of intercourse. It’s there to enhance the penis and make the person on the receiving end feel immense satisfaction.
The second function a cock ring might serve involves penetration. If done well and safely, complete penetration with the ring on can provide a pleasant surprise for the partner. However, we have to stress that both parties consent to this act and that you lubricate your penis and your device before entry.
There are certain intricate cock rings that come with additional accessories, such as butt plugs, anal beads, cock locks, and even double-ended rings with two vibrators attached. These particular additions are meant to stimulate both the penis and the anus, and in some cases, even the prostate. These cock rings are an excellent tool if you like to stimulate both yourself and your partner at the same time.
Other Methods for Treating Erectile Dysfunction
To enhance sexual performance and maintain erections, people might be tempted to get other ED treatments that don’t involve them trying to use a cock ring. So, what other methods of handling impotence are there, and how safe can they be for us? Here’s a brief list of some of the most popular options.
Right now, there are certain medications on the market that can help increase blood flow, which is why they’re often marketed as ED drugs. Some of the most popular ones include Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra. Nearly all of them are FDA-approved, and experts securely process them regularly. But long-term use of even those products can cause issues, so we urge you to talk to your doctor before use.
When we talk about natural remedies, we refer to both certain lifestyle changes and actual substances that we can take. So, let’s quickly go over the consumable remedies first. The most prominent ones we can use right now include:
Horny goat weed
The list is relatively brief, but essential nonetheless regarding what lifestyle changes we can make.
First and foremost, we need to get our bodies in shape. That will entail physical activities, such as running, exercising, jogging, playing sports, hiking, biking, etc. Anything that can get the blood flowing will do the trick.
Next, it’s time to stop the intake of certain substances. To maintain an erection more frequently, we will have to quit smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or eating unhealthy food. Instead, we should focus on getting balanced meals, lots of rest, and drinking plenty of fluids to improve our bloodstream.
Finally, we must reduce the amount of stress in our lives. The more stressful we are, the less likely we’ll be to get hard and focus on staying hard throughout intercourse. So, if possible, we should frequently engage in activities that relax us and help reduce any feelings of anxiety, panic, and general annoyance.
Other Sex Toys
Cock rings aren’t the only toys that can stimulate a man enough to help him maintain an erection. In fact, that selection is rather vast, including but not limited to:
Aesthetic surgery for penis enhancement is incredibly popular, and some men do undergo these procedures in order to treat erectile dysfunction. However, we don’t recommend this approach. While it might help erectile dysfunction, it can also have the exact opposite effect. Furthermore, there are far too many cases of botched surgeries that cause irreversible damage to the groin area.
Ultimately, the problem with ED might not stem from your body but your mind. Taking that into account, it’s a good idea to visit a professional and talk the problem over with them. Sometimes, it’s also wise to have the partner come along. After all, some of the stress preventing an erection could result from relationship-related problems.
Cock Rings and ED Treatment: A Summary
Erectile dysfunction can be a severe condition with huge adverse effects on a man. That’s why medical devices like cock rings are vital and why we urge our readers to acquire one if necessary. However, as always, we stress that you practice caution when purchasing one such product. Make extra sure that it fits well and doesn’t constrict too much. Your safety must come first, and pleasure will inevitably follow.
Around 30% of men are not satisfied with their current penis size. We know that the average length of a human penis ranges between 5.1 and 5.5 inches, but even a fraction of an inch below that can make some men feel inadequate. And this feeling of inadequacy makes some men want to try and extend their members as much as possible with a penis extender.
One common method that men gravitate toward gaining an extra inch includes various penis enhancement products and sex toys. The article before you aims to handle that particular subject. More specifically, we’ll be talking about penile extenders, their effectiveness, and how we can use them easily and safely.
What Is a Penis Extender?
A penis extender is one of many male enhancement devices out there that men utilize to increase the size and thickness of their penis. Of course, they aren’t the same thing as penis pumps, though people tend to mix the two terms up due to how similar they might appear. We’ll cover these differences further down the article.
Penis extensions have been around for decades, their effectiveness comes with varying success. Some people speculate that penis extenders are the only scientifically proven way to increase the organ’s length. However, not all experts agree, and in fact, quite a large number will simply advise men not to use them.
So, let’s try to understand how this kind of penis enlargement device might help a man’s member grow permanently.
In the case of penile extender kits, we place our penis within the device that we first need to assemble. Each of these devices tends to contain three major sections:
The Basal ring
The front piece.
Let’s go over them quickly. The Basal ring is a circular section where we insert our penis and which goes against our pelvis. On the other end of the device, there’s the front piece with the space for fasteners. That’s the section that will be fastened to the head of our penis. Some of these pieces have a double-strap support system on the front part for added support.
Between these two parts, we find the extension arms, and more often than not, they will consist of a screw, a hexagonal cylinder, and a round cylinder. By turning the screws in a particular way, we increase or decrease the penis traction tension. Depending on the goal we aim to achieve and our experience, the penis traction force can be mild or intense.
Of course, the other type of extender we mentioned earlier is the sleeve-like device shaped like a penis. More often than not, these extenders are hollowed out and can have a unique base ring to insert our scrotum. In addition, each device comes with sensation nodes that stimulate the wearer, offering both partners plenty of enjoyment during sex.
Will Penis Extenders Work If Our Phallus Is Below Average?
A typical penis extension device, even a generic one with few settings, will fit most penises that are slightly below average. After all, the whole point is to make them a few inches bigger, at least. However, if we happen to have a penis that’s significantly smaller than average or if we suffer from some kind of condition, a basic model will just not do. Instead, we will need to buy a specifically designed model for that particular size.
Will Penis Extenders Work If Our Phallus Is Above Average?
Once again, generally speaking, all extenders will fit penises that are a little longer than the norm. However, if they are too long, we might need to buy special components that can extend the front piece that far or pick a piece with a double-strap system to hold the penis in place. Alternatively, if the girth is large, we’ll require special fastener attachment pieces.
Using a Penis Extender: A Step-By-Step Guide
Penis extenders are not a one-and-done deal like pills or pumps. If we want a bigger penis, it will be a process that will last for months and will require quite a bit of work on our end. So, here’s a handy beginners’ guide on how to get ourselves a longer penis and improve our self-esteem along the way.
We need to strategize before we even strap our penis enhancement device onto our reproductive organs. We will need to draft up a routine and stick to it. But, more importantly, we will have to record every result in a journal. Said journal will contain the following data for each day of stretching:
The exact length and circumference of our flaccid penis
The exact length and circumference of our erect penis
Traction tension levels
The items we used during the day (e.g., strap fasteners and comfort pads)
Any other notable changes (bruising, straightening of any penile curvature, unforeseen situations that result in the removal of the device)
Potential additional exercises that we do combined with the regime
The exact days we took a break from wearing the penis stretcher.
That last sentence might stand out to you a bit. What exactly do we mean by taking a break from wearing penis stretchers? Well, at least once a week, the wearer of the extender should take a full-day break to rest up. This way, they avoid damage to the penile shaft or the penis tissue.
The first four weeks are what we call ‘the adjustment period. This is the time we get to spend learning about our penis extender of choice and figuring out how it works. Moreover, our penis is getting used to the idea that there’s a device strapped onto it.
We start each week by placing the penis extension device onto our members and adjusting the tension to its lowest level. Of course, that level will vary depending on what device we have (e.g., the Jes Extender we mentioned earlier) and what our current penis size might be.
The next step is to wear the device for 3 hours almost every day. Anything longer than that will result in penile injury. On the other hand, if we don’t wear it enough, we will not be seeing any results anytime soon.
As stated earlier, we will need to have at least one whole day when we don’t wear the extender. That allows the penis to recover and adjust to its growing size and girth. This gives us time to return to the everyday normalcy of not having a plastic-and-metal tool for penis extensions strapped to us.
Near the beginning of week 4, we will want to increase the traction tension slightly. However, it shouldn’t be a drastic change so that we don’t cause any damage.
Once we’re done using the extender, we need to wash it and dry it well. Again, hygiene is crucial in this process, so think of the extender maintenance in the same way the ladies think about maintaining their sex toys. In other words, don’t let the screws rust, the plastic fade, and the entirety of the extender emit an unpleasant odor.
Last but not least, document absolutely everything.
With week 5 rolling in, we guess you got accustomed to both your device and your penis extensions now. So, with this new stage, we should also consider the last tension setting as the default. So, for example, if our original setting for week 1 was 1200 grams, and we changed it to 1300 by week 4, then our starting point for week 5 is 1300.
At this stage, it’s important to keep this setting up to week 9, where we will increase it by yet another level. But, again, nothing must be too drastic or sudden. Let’s remember that we want to make our penis longer and stronger, not bruised and abused. Suppose there are even slight hints of bruises, cuts, pain, discomfort, or general uneasiness. In that case, we need to write them down and see a medical professional ASAP.
One thing that will change during this period is the hours we need to wear the device. If we started off with 3 hours each day in week 1, we’d shift to 4 hours from week five onwards. However, we should also increase the number of days when we set our penis loose. For the first few weeks, we stick to the one-free-day regime. Later on, we can switch to having two days free instead (Wednesday and Thursday, for example).
If and when necessary, we must adjust our components. Adding more elongation bars, for example, could be a good idea if we see a lot of progress. After all, an extender is pointless if it falls short of providing enough elongation with the gear it contains.
As stated earlier, documenting everything is a must. Furthermore, double-check every single piece of data. A slight mistake or miscalculation can have devastating results.
The final ten weeks of the beginners’ course are the easiest when it comes to wearing the device itself. By that point, we’ve come to “know” our extender. Wearing it becomes second nature in week 11. We implement it as part of our daily routine, like brushing our teeth or showering.
However, the most challenging part of this period is the relative lack of immediate results. As a result, the penis extensions will be slightly smaller than usual. The results we’re writing down differ in as little as millimeters. But that doesn’t mean we should stop either extending or taking notes.
The process for these ten weeks is simple. Once again, we use the last tension setting from week ten as our basis. The very next week, we will increase the number a level higher. Naturally, even though we came this far with our routine, we still don’t want to up the level too much and too suddenly. Safety must always come first.
Up until week 15, we will stay with the 4-hour wear time and 1‒2 days of break each week. However, as soon as week 16 rolls by, we increase the wear time to 5 hours. Rest days, on the other hand, stay the same.
It’s worth pointing out that the device might feel uncomfortable to the wearer during these weeks. So, we need to adjust our penis extenders to accommodate our penis’ new length and girth. Getting additional elongation bars would be a good idea.
Don’t Fear the Plateau Effect
Generally speaking, the plateau effect refers to a phenomenon where a practice that we employed is no longer as effective as before. In other words, if we do something one too many times, we might get less impactful results.
This phenomenon is incredibly frequent with using penis extenders. Once the final few weeks roll in, we can notice that our penis is growing at a slower (and lower) rate than before. That’s perfectly normal with device-assisted penis extensions. Again we have to stress that the users of penis extenders ought to write down every single change, even a minor one.
Advice on Using Penis Enhancement Devices
Bigger penis size and better erection quality don’t just come from strapping penis extenders and moving about. We need to know precisely what to do and avoid when utilizing one of these devices. So, listed below are multiple useful penis elongation tips for any prospective man to peruse.
Get the Best Penis Extenders
Most penis extenders on the open market tend to be cheap devices with little to no effectiveness. Quite a few penile stretchers out there have caused injury and made the people who used them completely turn on the idea of medical extension tools. They either restrict blood flow too much or don’t keep the reproductive organ strapped in well. But not all penis extenders are like that, and the best ones will help.
So, what might the best extender out there be? Well, to answer that, we will need to do a bit of research. Nowadays, thousands of extender reviews extol the virtues and flaws of each listed device for penis extensions. By going over these reviews and customer feedback, shoppers can determine what works for them. We will provide our readers with a handy buyers’ guide later down this article.
Stick to the Routine
Using a cock extender is essentially like exercising. In other words, there’s a routine (like the one we described earlier), and the user needs to stick with it. Suppose there are minor deviations from the routine. In that case, that’s fine (e.g., if we wear the extender a few minutes over or under the allotted time). But there has to be continuity, and we have to maintain it.
However, there are specific points that we need to consider when drafting our routine. For example, while the number of hours ought to stay as is, there are specific times during the day when we shouldn’t be wearing a penis extender:
When we sleep, our cock should not have a plastic-and-metal device strapped onto it
Playing sports or doing intense physical activity will be dangerous with a penis extender on
Absolutely no penis extenders while we’re driving; it will cause discomfort and can interfere with our control over the vehicle, which might result in a crash.
Set Realistic Goals
We can’t expect any miracles from any phallus-lengthening routine. After all, even the best extenders on the market can’t exactly make a penis grow several inches.
So, as people who have had experiences using a penis extender, we have to stress this point. More often than not, the penis will be extended anywhere between 1 and 2 inches from its original size. That right there is the expected result from using an elongation device and a goal we need to set for ourselves. If we surpass it by a small margin (or fall short just a bit), we can still count it as a success.
Slow and Steady Wins the Race
One detail we’ve been repeating over and over in this article is that we cannot have huge leaps between levels of penis extensions. Much like everything else in life, the best results come after weeks of gradual build-up and hard work. If we were to use a high setting on the very first day, we could seriously hurt ourselves. In fact, that can result in not having a normal erection for a long time.
Let’s set the scene for you. First, imagine having a state-of-the-art medical device with screws, straps, and plastic bases strapped onto the penis. Then imagine wearing tight jeans or leather pants. It sounds painful, mainly because it absolutely is.
It’s all about common sense here. To feel the full effects of penis extenders, we have to wear loose-fitting clothes, such as boxer shorts and pants (e.g., sweatpants). It will feel comfortable, but it will give our groin area some breathing room as we move about our day and do our activities without even noticing that we have a penis extender on.
Avoid Using Penis Extenders as Sex Toys
Medical devices for penis extensions are not there to be our sex toys. They exist to increase penis length and, if necessary, correct penile curvatures. In other words, an extender might look like a penis pump or a masturbator (depending on the model). Still, it is not designed to help men during intercourse. So, we have to advise the men reading this article NOT to try and use it as one.
Since extenders involve straps and screws that directly affect the length of the penis, they can cause a lot of bruising, over-stretching, and even tearing. Those all sound painful and not exactly a recipe for success in achieving sexual pleasure.
We’ve covered setting realistic goals, but there’s one more detail we ought to stress. You shouldn’t stop there once you have the desired length and girth for your member. However, you should neither push extremely past that point to avoid tears and bruises.
Instead, dial the setting back and lower the tension level. After a certain point, the organ will ultimately start to retract back to its original length prior to all the penis extensions. By reducing the tension level and moving forward, the device will help the man maintain the current size.
Combine Penis Extensions with Other Routines
Sometimes, penis growth will have to involve more than one type of aid. With that in mind, you will want to combine other routines, methods, and techniques to reach your desired result. Here’s a brief list of everything a man can do to speed up the penis lengthening process:
Regular exercises (and reducing body fat, especially fat stored in the stomach)
Lots of fresh air
Proper dieting (e.g., cutting down on fatty foods, carbohydrates, alcohol, etc.)
Clean living, figuratively speaking (no drugs, no unsafe sex, no extreme sports)
Clean living, literally (keeping your room, your home, and yourself neat and tidy)
Routine check-ups at the doctor
One or two other clinically tested methods for penis extensions (more on that later).
Penis Lengthening Devices: A Buyers’ Guide
Now that we’ve acquainted everyone with the know-how of using a penis extender, it’s time to discuss shopping. Unfortunately, there are far too many scam brands that manufacture and sell faulty products. So, before we buy a device that looks like a pillory, we need to consider every single detail. That way, we’ll make sure not to buy a tool that will potentially maim us.
The Full Package
Many penis extenders don’t contain extra parts that we might require when we move along with our lengthening process. So, we buy additional stuff and sink more money into the purchase than necessary. Instead, we should aim to buy an extender with everything a prospective user might need. Those elements ought to include:
A double strap system
An expander system
A hypoallergenic exterior
Spare screws and pistons.
Comfort and Safety
A device for penis extensions ought to be safe for use. That means it should contain materials that won’t cause an allergic reaction and needs to work flawlessly without snatching the foreskin or squeezing the shaft too hard.
Furthermore, each device also needs to feel comfortable. After all, the man who uses an extender has to have it on for several hours during the day. That can feel dreadful if the device is too tight or too heavy.
Medical-Grade or Not
The extender we aim to buy must be clinically tested and have the approval of the FDA for medical use. At the very least, it should be in the process of gaining said approval. We must again remind our readers that extenders are medical devices meant to help people with physical deficiencies. We must have some sort of certification that marks our penis extenders safe for everyday use.
Amount of Tension
Some extenders tense up the penis too far and cause bruising. Others are barely strong enough to move it a tenth of an inch. Neither of these options works. We need a device that has a decent range of tension levels. With a tool like that, we can adjust the level based on how far we’ve come in the routine and how comfortable it feels for us.
User Feedback and Company Reputation
Company websites, are an excellent source for learning as much as possible about the people who make our products of choice. Firstly, we can dig up the company’s history, goals, credentials, experts, and lines of products. Next, we can compare and contrast the prices with other leading brands.
In addition to all of that, many extender manufacturers have a comment section on their websites, where we can take a look at user feedback for each product. However, in this regard, we recommend going to third-party evaluation websites and forums that discuss penis extensions. They will often have direct and detailed feedback from users who purchased their products from the company we’re interested in.
Many penis extenders are pricey, with some expert kits costing up to $200. That’s more or less an expected amount we could pay for a model that works well. Anything that’s drastically below that is generally low-end stuff that’s risky to use.
However, if the product’s price is hiked up and crosses three digits, we need to be careful. It’s more than likely a scam for gullible customers desperate for a quick solution to their problem.
Benefits of Using a Penis Extender Device
Length and Girth Gains
The biggest benefit of giving our reproductive organ a good stretching is that it will be bigger and thicker than before. Growing a single inch in length is no small feat, and some extenders can help us grow even beyond that. Furthermore, we no longer need a pump to achieve this effect. With enough tension, that thickness will come on its own.
Correcting Penile Curvatures
A phallus is not always as straight and firm as we might need it. Sometimes, it can end up bent and misshapen due to certain defects. Unfortunately, there are only two medical solutions to that issue, with one being corrective surgery (which doesn’t always work).
The second solution, of course, is to put our member in a penis extender and go through the regime. In a matter of weeks, it will be straight and hard again.
Treating Peyronie’s Disease
There are times when scar link tissue, also known as plaque, forms under the skin of our penis. It can misshape it and even cause it to bend, having a serious effect on our sexual performance. That condition is called Peyronie’s disease, and according to some experts, penis extenders can do something about it.
Lots of people have tried to treat Peyronie’s disease using these medical devices, and the results always tended to be positive. However, most of the reporting that came from the test subjects was anecdotal, so we need to take that information with a grain of salt. After all, the best way to correct Peyronie’s disease is to visit a doctor and seek out their advice.
Stamina and Self-Confidence Boost
A bigger, longer, harder dick means having more sex and maintaining a healthy erection. If we exercise long enough with our penis extender, we’ll progress in this area. That right there is a significant boost to one’s self-confidence. But in all honesty, just seeing a large penis ready for action can get any man motivated and feeling great.
Treating Erectile Dysfunction or ED
How many men complain about having a flaccid penis and problems with getting an erection? Yet, according to medical professionals and various studies, at least 52% of all men suffer from some type of erectile dysfunction. And not only is ED affecting the sex life of each man, but it can also be a huge blow to their self-esteem and confidence, which can lead to anxiety, depression, and anti-social behavior.
Therefore, to treat ED and help keep the penis hard, we recommend getting an extender. It’s cheaper and more effective than medication, plus it has a proven track record of success.
Alternatives to Penis Extender Devices
As stated earlier, penis pumps are not the same as extender devices. A pump’s whole point is to temporarily make one’s penis bigger through vacuum suction. If we don’t use them the right way, we can constrict the blood flow to our penis and get a serious injury.
However, penis pumps have their own benefits, too. Their effects might be temporary, but they provide an excellent psychological confidence boost. Plus, they work exceptionally well when combined with penoscrotal rings.
A penoscrotal ring is a device that’s fitted around the base of the penis and testes. Its main purpose is to restrict blood flow to the member. By doing that, we make our organs stay hard longer than usual. In addition, it swells up and becomes harder than ever. Naturally, we recommend not using this method too much unless the ring is just your size, as it can have a devastating effect on the testicles.
Male Enhancement Supplements
Male enhancement pills such as Viagra or Cialis are everywhere. They are an excellent source of energy for our sex drive, but their effects are short-lasting. In addition, since both of the products mentioned are over-the-counter drugs, the user might develop an addiction. Nevertheless, they are all FDA-approved and safe when taken in proper doses.
Jelqing is a form of workout routine that’s supposed to make our erections stronger and harder than before. Depending on which expert we ask, jelqing can help the penis grow in a number of ways. However, science still can’t definitively say that these exercises work because there’s just not enough data available.
Penile Enlargement Surgery
Surgery should be the very last resort for anyone willing to extend their penis. To achieve their desired penile length, some men pay upwards of $15,000 per procedure. That’s a hefty sum right there, and it doesn’t even guarantee safety.
Unfortunately, thousands of men across the globe tend to have bloated penises after the procedure and usually have trouble ejaculating or even feeling anything. And there have been plenty of cases that had even more horrific results than that. To put it simply, it’s just not worth it — if you have a choice, always go with the penis extender.
Penis Extenders: Final Thoughts
Throughout our article, we’ve mentioned many times that penis extenders are not sex toys meant to bring instant pleasure. Instead, they are serious medical tools that can significantly improve the lives of millions of men sensitive about their penis size. So, if you’re reading this, know this — penis extensions are definitely something you’ll want to try. If you do it safely and by the book, you can achieve great success.
So, if you aim to make your member grow a couple of inches in length and girth, get a penis extender today!
Cock rings, penis rings, C-rings, pleasure rings — no matter what you call them, are fun, sexy introductory sex toys. Cock rings are easy to use, and there’s a vast range of models to choose from, which means you are guaranteed to find one that fits your penis and your budget. However, if you’ve never used them, it’s normal to have some questions.
What exactly does a cock ring do? Is it safe to use? Is a vibrating model preferable to a standard one? How long will the battery or charge last?
What Are Cock Rings?
A cock ring is a ring-shaped band that fits around the penis, dildo, or cock and balls. It’s designed for men and people with penises to squeeze the shaft (or shaft and balls). As a result, the cock is firmer and stays up longer, prolonging the duration of penetrative sex.
A person wearing a cock ring feels pleasure because of the extra stimulation and pressure on the penis. Vibrating rings also help achieve a stronger orgasm. But how does that work?
Erections occur when the arteries going into the penis dilate, causing it to expand more than usual. At the same time, the veins leading away from the penis tighten, trapping as much blood as possible inside.
According to Gigi Engle, a certified sex coach and author of All the F*cking Mistakes, cock rings help more blood pool in the penis by adding a form of constriction on top of that vein activity, resulting in more powerful boners. That is especially important for people with erectile dysfunction.
Why People Like Cock Rings
Here are several reasons why a cock ring may help you.
A Cock Ring Can Help You Keep Your Erection Up
The ring traps blood inside your penis, helping you keep a hard-on, no matter what kind of model you opt for. It should work even if you struggle to get an erection in the first place. A tight-fitting cock ring at the base of your penis can also aid in the prevention of “venous leakage”, a kind of erectile dysfunction caused by tissues in the penis failing to hold the blood ineffectively.
It Gives You a Confidence Boost
Stressing about whether you’ll be able to stay hard or last long enough can cause performance anxiety. The more you think about it, the less likely you will perform well. But using penis rings will give you a sense of security you need to relax. They will add to your girth, but they will also make sure you stay firm longer, resulting in better sex.
A Cock Ring Delays and Intensifies Orgasms
This sex toy puts pressure on the area around the base of the penis and testicles, which may postpone ejaculation. That doesn’t really come as a surprise if you think of cock rings as an advanced version of the squeeze technique that men use to delay orgasm.
Moreover, there are penis rings that feature an additional ring to wrap around the testicles. The ball ring pulls down on your balls, causing the delayed effect.
It Makes Penetrative and Oral Sex Better for Your Partner
The majority of women need clitoral stimulation to get off. But if you use vibrating cock rings during intercourse, you will be able to engage the clitoris as well. Other cock rings also have built-in “girth extenders” that make your shaft feel wider when inside a partner.
How to Use a Cock Ring?
In most cases, men can safely use cock rings, regardless of sexual experience. However, if you suffer from certain health conditions, consult with your physician first.
Furthermore, it might be best to stick with models of cock rings medically reviewed by an expert to avoid injuries like penile strangulation. Here are a few simple guidelines on how to enhance your sexual performance with the help of cock rings.
Find the One That Fits Just Right
A cock ring should be tight but not so tight that you become numb. Beginners should start with stretchy or adjustable silicone because it’s easier to fit it around your size. Silicone cock rings are also easy to remove and clean. We generally recommend stainless steel or metal rings to more experienced users.
Just like with other sex toys, you should use lube with cock rings. So, before putting the ring on, spread a few drops around the inner part. Lube will make the ring smoothly slide down your penis or dildo.
Just a quick reminder: you should buy the correct type of lube for your sex ring. For instance, silicone lube doesn’t go well with silicone cock rings. It will damage the material, and your sex toy will have a shorter lifespan. If in doubt, go with a water-based lube.
Put the Ring on a Semi-Erect or Flaccid Penis
It would be best if you didn’t put a cock-ring on an erect penis. Even if you add some lube, it will be difficult and uncomfortable, especially if you buy a tighter variant. When your shaft is flaccid or semi-erect, it is simpler to place the ring over the head of the penis and slide it down. You may need to experiment a little to see what works best for you.
Make Sure to Position It Right
Tension rings can go at the base of your penis or around the shaft and balls. But if you are a novice, you might want to acquire one that surrounds only the shaft. It is easier to put it on, and you will less likely hurt your balls. On the flip side, when using a condom, putting a cock ring over the shaft and balls leaves some space around the rim of the rubber. That means the ring won’t slide around and force the condom up.
Put the shaft ring on first, and when it’s positioned down your length, move on to the ring intended for testicles. Since you are dealing with a very sensitive body part, proceed carefully. Stretch the ring as far as possible without actually snapping it and gently place testicles inside, one at a time. Adjustable rings do very well here because you can make them bigger for balls to go through.
In the end, using a cock ring should feel nice and snug but not uncomfortable. If you notice any pain, numbness, or abrupt changes in skin color (such as turning bright red or deep purple), the sex toy is too tight. That’s your cue to take the ring off — this is not the time to take one for the team.
Take the Cock Ring Off After 20 Minutes
A general recommendation is to wear a cock ring for 20 to 30 minutes. As previously mentioned, cock rings restrict blood flow, which is usually harmless for a brief period. However, it can become quite unpleasant, much like placing a tight rubber band on your finger. In addition, a slow blood flow to the genitals for an extended period might cause tissue damage.
Pro Tip: Mind the Manscaping
Before strapping on your new toy, it’s a good idea to trim or shave your pubic hair. Nothing kills the mood like the pain from the cock ring pulling your hair out.
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Most Common Types of Cock Rings
Adjustable Cock Rings
These rings include D-rings, snaps, Velcro, or lasso-style adjusters to make it easier to slip on and remove the toy. You wear them beneath the scrotum and around the penis. For instance, Jack and Jill Lasso Single Lock (Adjustable) Translucent Silicone cock ring is great for beginners. It is made of body-safe and durable silicone and features a safe locking system.
Stretchy types usually consist of soft silicone. They come in the shape of a closed circle that you stretch to place around the penis and under the scrotum. Such cock rings are quite popular because you can easily put them on and off. The only drawback is that they are not adjustable, so they might not be as snug as you wish.
Vibrating toys have a little motor that causes vibrations, enhancing the experience for both the wearer and their partner. Although some men enjoy this sensation, most wear vibrating rings to help their partners achieve a more powerful clitoral climax. Unlike other kinds, you should wear vibrating rings near the base of the cock, but not below the balls.
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Solid Cock Rings
If you are a novice, it would be best to skip this model. Solid rings are worn behind the scrotum and at the base of the penis. However, they can cause a penile injury, such as penile strangulation, if you use a cock ring that is too small for your erectile capability. Take, for instance, Rouge Urethral Probe and Cock Ring Stainless Steel. This toy is designed for deep probing and is not for the faint of heart.
Cock and Ball Rings
These sex toys are perfect for men who prefer testicular stimulation during sex. Ball rings are also useful for postponing ejaculation since they pull the testicles away from the body (to ejaculate, the balls have to retract into the body).
Jack and Jill Cock Ring The Hoist Smoke provides great support and a gentle lift. It consists of phthalate-free Super Elastique 3000, a stretch-to-fit material that offers a perfect fit and incredible comfort regardless of size.
The most important thing to remember when experimenting with cock rings is to be safe. But having fun is a close second! So, be cautious, pay attention to how everything feels, and have fun with this new addition to your sex life. Only then will you be able to decide if a cock ring is to become a permanent part of your sex toys collection.Your perfectly optimized content goes here!
Let’s discuss masturbators. For a long time, the sex toy market favored women, providing an array of products to enhance their masturbation and pleasure. But, on the other hand, men had to rely on their hands and a box of kleenex.
Thankfully, the situation has changed. Now, penis owners can also have their bedside drawers filled with male sex toys. That means you can finally give your right (and left) hand a break after the long and lonely pandemic year — the time has come to check out a few sex toys.
One of the best ways you can upgrade your solo sessions from good to apologizing-to-your-neighbors is with the help of male masturbators. Tempting, right? But before you click add to cart button, here are ten facts you need to know about this popular sex toy.
Masturbators Come in Different Shapes and Sizes
Male masturbators are essentially sleeves you put your penis into to mimic the sensation of penetration during masturbation. They come in many different forms. For example, you can find discreet-looking eggs with nodules designed to tease your nerve endings or fleshlights that look like vulvas. There are also rechargeable vibrating masturbation toys that give feedback and provide stamina training.
So, no matter how deep, rough, or tight you want to go, you can always find a suitable masturbator. In conclusion, warm apple pie, they aren’t.
Do masturbators provide a significant improvement compared to your handy work? Yes, they do. Just like a perfect sauce can make your steak taste much better, a good masturbator can take your solo play to another level.
Another thing to consider is that masturbators don’t have to be used only for solo play. Some companies like We-Vibe create adult toys for couples to enjoy together. For example, We Vibe Wand comes with an attachment so both partners can enjoy stimulation simultaneously.
Masturbators Are Not the Same as the Real Thing, But They Come Pretty Close
Let’s be honest. No toy can feel exactly like having intercourse with a partner. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t spice up your solo sessions while going through a dry spell.
The best male masturbators are designed to create a feeling similar to having penetrative sex. They consist of high-grade silicone and, when used together with a lube, can provide you with hours of fun. Some models can even warm up to the body temperature, enhancing the intimate experience further.
There Are Hundreds (Yes, Hundreds) of Different Types of Masturbators
According to the Tenga 2020 Global Self-Pleasure Report, 84% of Americans consider their solo playtime a form of self-care, resorting to them as a coping mechanism during the COVID-19 pandemic. Likewise, 68% of the US citizens said they had used sex toys, more often during social isolation and will continue to use them more frequently.
As the demand for sex toys grows, the masturbator companies are more than happy to meet it. Nowadays, guys can choose between hundreds of male masturbators, and the options are getting more creative each day. But if you are a newbie, picking the right one can be overwhelming. So, here are nine common types of masturbators.
While you can avoid it with more advanced masturbators, manual labor is still required with most masturbation sleeves. Sleeves can come in various shapes and sizes. Their prices can range from as little as $10 to around $300 depending on the materials, size, additional functions, etc. Check out a few sleeves you can find in the sex toy stores.
Even if you are a complete novice in the masturbator world, you’ve probably already heard about fleshlights. Fleshlights are one of the most popular male sex toys. These masturbational sleeves were originally designed to look discreet and resemble a flashlight — hence the name. You can also find them in the shape of ‘Tall Boy’ style beer cans.
Fleshlights are a vagina or anus contained within a cylinder. It is hidden inside the packaging that looks inconspicuous. You can keep them next to your bed (and pray no one in your home comes asking for a real flashlight). Depending on the model, you can either finish inside it or spill the juice through it if the other end is open.
The original fleshlights have a super-soft skin-like feel and are the closest thing to a real deal you get when practicing solo. There are other models in the adult toy stores, and the real-life feel will depend on the quality of your fleshlight.
Yes, we agree that an egg isn’t exactly the most erotic of items. And if you have trouble picturing how your favorite body part would fit into something that could’ve come out of a chicken’s butt, you are not alone. But don’t shy away from this masturbation toy just yet because there’s a reason behind its popularity — and don’t worry, it isn’t anything kinky.
Although these eggs look odd and hard, the egg part is just the package. Inside them, there’s a sleeve. The toy has a small opening, where you put the lube and swiftly follow with your penis. The interior is usually textured, with different eggs sporting bumps and ridges.
Eggs are meant to be disposable. So it would be best to get rid of them after you are done. But technically, you can use them three or four times, making sure to wash and dry them between uses and then throw them away.
If you are a guy who thinks evolution has already gifted you with a perfect masturbation tool — your hand — wait until you try strokers. Strokers are a men’s masturbation toy with a rigid or flexible casing covering the entire penis and stimulating you as you move them up and down your shaft. Great for solo or with a partner.
Strokers can be as simple as a plain silicone tube and as high-end as a remote-controlled, app-connected vibrating masturbator. Modern, high-end strokers are very powerful, have sensors, provide feedback, and you can use apps to customize the whole experience. Some even use pressure-wave technology that stimulates the sensitive frenulum and provides mind-blowing orgasms.
Is your partner not really into oral sex? No problem — use your oral sex simulator instead. Not only are these masturbation toys often shaped like a mouth, but they also provide suction sensations to make it feel like a real blowjob.
They are usually made of rubber, silicone, elastomer, or other similar materials. Aside from the manual blowjob masturbators, you can also buy an automatic version for a more powerful experience.
A pocket pussy is another sex toy created for penis owners that simulates penetrative sex with a partner. Those toys resemble a vagina and often feature lips and clitoris.
They can be small enough to fit in your hand or big enough to pass as a real-life vagina. While a palm-size pocket pussy is more discreet and easier to stash away, the life-size pussies are often modeled after an actual woman and provide an irreplaceable experience.
Many pocket pussies have an open end because it’s easier to clean them, but some models are closed. Those toys that don’t have an exit hole usually provide a light suction feel. Furthermore, you can find pocket pussies in various materials. Still, most manufacturers use silicone because it’s the softest and provides the most realistic sensation.
As you probably guessed, anal masturbators are an a-hole equivalent of pocket pussies. So, if you find the back entrance more appealing than the vajayjay, this toy might be the perfect fit. Depending on your preferences, you can find a hand-held version or a life-size ass.
Most anal masturbators feature a simple hole you can use as you please, but they require your effort to work. The more expensive ones are battery-powered and can simulate anal sex and do the heavy lifting for you.
Porn Star Masturbators
Yes, we all have the one actress that can make our king rise no matter how tired or stressed we are. Also, sadly, the odds of meeting her in person or talking her into doing something dirty are slim to nonexistent. But that doesn’t mean she is entirely out of reach. A stroker molded after her pussy, mouth, or asshole might be the next best thing.
Porn Star masturbators are created after real-life actresses from adult movies. So, for your next solo playtime, you might want to pick the one that sports your all-time favorite actress’ orifice and give it a go. Imagine how great it would be to watch her perform and feel her around your shaft simultaneously!
There’s also a company called 3Fap that organized a beautiful vagina contest. After picking the three most beautiful vaginas in the world, the company created stroker versions of them. So, now you can tap them if you buy one of the three available versions.
It’s a brave new world out there in the male sex toys department with the life-size masturbators in the shape of your favorite body part. Vaginas, butts, breasts, penises, and every possible combination of the four are now available to enjoy without the rest of the body attached.
The plus side is that you enjoy the penetration, having something to hump against, and the added weight this male sex toy provides. On the other hand, life-size masturbators tend to be bulkier than others and probably won’t fit inside your bedside drawer. Also, since they are not quite discreet, you might want to steer clear of them if you have nosy roommates.
How to Use Male Masturbation Toys
Before you rush to buy your first masturbator, keep in mind that these toys are not one-size-fits-all, no matter what advertisements say. Just like there are no two penises alike, different people also have different preferences during their play sessions. For instance, some like their masturbators to provide a tight fit, while others enjoy a loose sleeve.
So, the key is to pay attention if a masturbator’s size, length, and girth match yours. Once you have the perfect toy ready, it’s time to add lubricant. Depending on how your masturbator works, you might need to insert the lube inside the orifice and sometimes into the outer sleeve or case as well.
Since the best male masturbators are silicone, it’s important to remember to use water-based lubes. Otherwise, you risk damaging your masturbator. Hybrid, silicone, and oil-based lubes are not okay to use. They will destroy your masturbator.
The mechanics behind male masturbators are pretty simple. There’s no right or wrong way to do it. First, you put enough lube inside your sex toy and commence thrusting. Or, if you opt for a vibrating toy, sit back and relax while the toy does its magic.
Still, bear in mind that easing into your toy should never hurt. It might be tighter than you are used to, but not uncomfortable. Masturbators with a flexible body allow you to adjust the pressure with your grip. In contrast, those with a hard body don’t offer the same luxury. If it hurts, pull out and try something else.
No one says you have to stick to the same routine every time you play solo. A simple change of positions can do wonders and produce different sensations. For instance, if you tend to stand during masturbation, try leaning against a wall. Or, if you are always lying down, try sitting up.
Take Your Time
Using a masturbator after a lifetime of hanging out with your hand will probably send you off the rails all too soon. But once you get used to the fantastic new stimulation, you can learn to slow down and experiment with strokes and speeds and even add another toy, like a prostate massager, into the mix.
Move Your Hips
Unless you own a life-size masturbator, it’s easy to forget to move your hips during solo playtime. But mixing gyrating and thrusting motions with the hand movements can help increase the intensity and bring you more pleasure.
Clean Up Afterwards
You should clean masturbators before and after each use to prevent infections. As with any other sex toy, sharing your masturbator with other people is not advisable. But if you can’t avoid it, use a condom or clean them properly before swapping.
Manual and Vibrating Masturbators Offer Significantly Different Experience
If you are looking for an experience that resembles penetrative sex as much as possible, you should opt for manual masturbators. They often come with various attachments. You can experiment until you find the one that feels the most realistic to you. On the other hand, vibrating masturbators offer entirely new sensations that you could never achieve with your hand, manual masturbators, or even sex.
You Can Use Masturbators as Often as You Wish
You can never have too much fun, right? In this case, it’s true. You can use your masturbator many times a week or day (hello, lockdowns), as long as it fits into your life in a healthy way.
If you masturbate multiple times a day and still lead a healthy, fulfilled life, everything is okay. The key is to take proper care of your sexual health and stop at the first signs of discomfort or pain.
But suppose it makes you miss work, sex with your partner and otherwise negatively affects your life. In that case, you should consider talking to a sex therapist. Moreover, if you notice changes on your skin, like redness, sensitivity, or chafing, try reducing the masturbator use to a minimum and better care of your penis.
Male Masturbators Are Easy to Maintain
Many hesitate to give masturbators a shot because the process seems too messy, and cleaning the toy after each use sounds like too much work. But male masturbation toys are pretty easy to clean, just like any other sex toy.
Aside from the disposable kinds, like eggs, that offer quick and easy cleanup, masturbators with open ends are the easiest to clean. You ejaculate into a tissue or somewhere else, so there’s not much to clean.
Many close-ended toys also allow you to disassemble some parts to better clean hard-to-reach places. However, suppose that’s not the case with your close-ended masturbator. In that case, you have to pay special attention to cleaning and to disinfect the inner part.
In any case, following a proper cleaning procedure is very important. You can wash all masturbators with warm water and antibacterial soap. You can also purchase a special sex toy cleaner. Once you are done cleaning your toy, leave it out to dry because putting away a damp toy can cause stains and nasty smells.
You should always clean your sex toys thoroughly to avoid bacteria build-ups. Inspect your toy after use for any scratches or breakage because that’s where bacteria will accumulate. Using dirty masturbators can lead to infections and damage your health. If you notice that the damage is too severe, purchase a new toy.
The Experience Is Not Risk-Free
Sure, using masturbators is a low-risk activity. No one ever caught an STD while playing with themselves. If you listen to your body and take care of your sensitive skin, you will likely be fine. Also, if you take proper care of your masturbator and don’t share it with other people, there’s almost no risk of infection.
That being said, frequent and rough masturbation can cause skin irritations. Also, forcefully bending an erect penis can burst the blood-filled chambers, resulting in penile fracture, a rare but painful condition.
The Best Male Masturbators
If all that sounds good and you are ready to get fresh with your self-play, here are the best masturbators to try.
Sue Johanson Head Honcho
For those who want to hit it and quit it, Sue Johanson Head Honcho is a masturbation sleeve that works fast. This shaft has caressing nodules at its base and houses three delectable suction cavities for mind-blowing orgasms.
Head Honcho is tight and stretchy, ready to give you the instant pleasure you seek. In addition, such simple masturbators are often waterproof, which means you can take them to the shower or tub with you.
Kiiroo Onyx+ Interactive Masturbator
If you have trouble in the up-and-down department, vibrating masturbators can lend you a helping hand. Vibrant, light, and quiet, Kiiroo Onyx+ can reach up to 140 strokes per minute for a truly powerful, hands-free experience.
You can connect this masturbator to an app or interactive content like video, virtual reality, 3D partner games, or webcam sites. Or you can synchronize it with your partner’s phone or another sex toy and then use them simultaneously.
Tenga Flip Hole — Black
On the outside, Tenga Flip Hole looks high-tech and sleek. But when you flip it open, you will notice that every centimeter is densely packed with every stimulant imaginable, from pumps, flaps, and gates to nubs and rubs. Thanks to the practical flip-style technology, this toy is straightforward to clean and dry, making it a pleasure to use.
Satisfyer Men Classic — Black
Satisfyer Men Classic is a classic fleshlight-style masturbator. While many penis owners opt for this toy simply because it has a hole (pure pleasure, no fuss), this brand has thrown in a couple more features. There’s an inner pressure regulator you can adjust and grooved texture. And it’s also pretty affordable!
Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo
You don’t need Cirque du Soleil skills to masturbate hands-free. Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo can do the trick. All you need to do is keep your hands to yourself and let this innovative toy take over. Hot Octopuss Pulse is the world’s first interactive Guybrator. You can connect it with over 4000 interactive videos (2D or VR), your partner’s phone from anywhere globally, your favorite cam model, or sites!
Fun Factory Cobra Libre II Male Masturbator — Black
Cobra Libre II is an ideal male masturbator for all those needing a discreet sex toy. It is quiet enough not to interrupt your imagination (or prompt someone else to do it). Also, it looks so weird that if you have an unsolicited home visitor, you can tell them it’s a high-tech smart mouse, and no one will question you. Finally, cobra Libre features eleven vibration settings and is waterproof so that you can use it in the shower.
Fun Factory Manta Man Tool — Deep Sea Blue
Fun Factory’s Manta is rechargeable, submersible, and made in Germany, so you know it will last. The unique thing about the Manta masturbator is that it will hit the right spot — wherever that is for you — thanks to its ergonomic shape. Moreover, it is designed to bring pleasure for both solo times and couple play.
You Can Combine Them With Other Sex Toys
There’s more to your genitals than just your penis, and, thankfully, there are many toys to show the rest some love. So, why not combine your masturbator session with anal beads, a prostate massager (male G-spot), or a butt plug?
What If You Don’t Like It?
Masturbators sound amazing and can be a great addition to your masturbation routine. That being said, some people have tried them and decided against them. The most common detriment guys list for masturbators is the struggle of finding the right fit. Since you can’t exactly try a masturbator on the spot to see if it suits you, there’s a big chance it will be too short, too long, too tight, or too loose.
Moreover, some guys report that a plastic vagina doesn’t do it for them. If that is the case with you, it’s completely fine. Kudos for getting out of your comfort zone and trying something different. Now that you know what you don’t like, you can look for something that does get you up and high, like a prostate massager that hits your male G-spot.
Finding a perfect solo session gadget is not easy, but male masturbators feel like a natural starting point. From simple silicone tubes to high-tech app-controlled strokers, there certainly are many sex toys to try and sort through until you find the one that fits your penis like a glass slipper.
But don’t forget to add some water-based lube into the cart as well. After you dive into the world of male masturbators, you might not feel like coming out for days.
Finding a real woman can be rather challenging nowadays. Yes, online dating has made everyone’s sex lives slightly better, but not by much. Men in between partners need to find an outlet to get off. Most often, they resort to solo play. While that can calm our cravings briefly, it’s hardly a replacement for the real thing.
So, how can we, of healthy and active sexual age, enjoy the comfort of masturbation while feeling the sensation of a real vagina? The answer is simple enough — pocket pussies.
In this article, we will cover everything relevant related to pocket pussies. We’ll go over what exactly counts as a pocket pussy, why it’s so popular, and why using it might benefit men. In addition, the article will provide some much-needed wisdom about the proper use of fake vaginas and how we can get the most out of them.
Pocket Pussy 101
A pocket pussy is the most common term used for a masturbation sleeve that is shaped like a woman’s reproductive organ. Most pocket pussies tend to look similar. They are long, soft tubes with a closed-end in the back and a very open end at the front. The open end is shaped like a realistic vagina, complete with every single crevice and crease.
The inside of a pocket pussy is often soft, made out of hypoallergenic material such as soft plastics or silicone. This material is used to simulate the feel of real skin. Depending on the model, the material inside these male sex toys can be smooth or ribbed, providing extra pleasure as we masturbate.
While the term’ pocket pussy’ is common for this type of masturbator, it’s not a device that only straight men use. Gay men prefer to use pocket pussies as well. So while they might not be attracted to the term ‘pocket pussy toy’ or anything along those lines, they definitely can reap the benefits of these types of masturbators.
Interestingly, there is a lot of scholarly research around sex toy use. So, take heart to all of our fellow men who own one. You’re wanking off in the name of science and human progress, brothers! That’s as good a reason as any to own a pocket pussy.
The Stigma of Sex Toys
Owning a sex toy is still taboo, whether we’re male or female. Society still seems to judge people who happen to own a bullet vibrator, anal beads, or even something specific like the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust or a Bad Dragon dildo. But interestingly enough, the reasons behind this judgment of people who own sex toys have shifted over the decades.
Roughly until the 2nd World War, people who owned sex toys were considered personae non-gratae in their communities. Masturbation was considered a sin, and men caught masturbating were wrongly identified as homosexuals. The public attitude towards sex was still very much influenced by Christian beliefs.
Nowadays, we’re more open to talking about sex and self-stimulation. So why do some men still refuse to publicly acknowledge that they use a pocket pussy to enjoy themselves?
Well, it all has to do with implications. If a man owns a pocket pussy, he’s not having real sex with an actual woman. In other words, toys have become linked with people who can’t get dates. Furthermore, the more realistic pocket pussy toys get, the more expensive they are.
We don’t judge men (or women) who like owning masturbation devices. There are many benefits to owning one, and we’ll get more into it later in the article. For now, we will say this to our fellow pocket pussy owners: don’t feel ashamed. You’re not alone, and you’re not a bad person for owning a masturbation sleeve. On the contrary, we think you’re awesome.
How to Use a Pocket Vagina
And speaking of awesome, let’s discuss the proper ways of using pocket vaginas.
The instructions we provide won’t apply to all toys out there. For instance, a vibrating pocket pussy will work differently from a non-vibrating one. In addition, silicone pocket pussies will require steps that plastic ones won’t. So, before trying anything out, we recommend researching the product a bit and avoiding doing anything that might damage it.
So, the first step is pretty simple: we’ll need to clean the whole pocket pussy. That includes both the removable sleeve inside and the outer shell. Even the best pocket pussy toy can suffer from friction damage if we don’t remove any debris or dirt. But more importantly, we need to clean the device for our safety since bacteria and grime can have severe effects on our health. Finally, depending on the masturbator we’re using, we’ll need to find a proper sex toy cleaner.
The next step involves lubing up our pocket pussy. We highly recommend that people go with water-based lube for several reasons:
It feels fantastic.
After drying up, it doesn’t leave an odor as silicone and oil-based lubes.
It doesn’t significantly damage the material.
Silicone and oil-based lubricants can and will damage most pocket pussies.
Next, it’s showtime. First, we should keep in mind that some of these products can be super tight, so check the tightness of the toy. After all, nobody likes a split masturbator. The last step is pretty much self-explanatory (and self-satisfactory).
Benefits of Using Male Masturbators
Can using a pussy toy be of any benefit to us? The answers might surprise you! So we collected every single answer to that question in a handy little list that follows.
Sometimes, especially during stressful periods of our lives, we can underperform in the bedroom. Premature ejaculation becomes a daily part of life. We no longer have the strength and durability to satisfy our partners as we once did. That is terrible news for our sexual activity. Still, it can also take a massive toll on our psychological and mental wellbeing.
We need to increase sexual stamina, and if we can’t do it with a real-life partner, then a pocket pussy is the perfect toy for the job. In addition, by having tons of solo sessions with the sleeve back-to-back, we will become more confident in our sexual abilities.
Furthermore, we’ll explore different aspects of sex and develop techniques that will make us last longer in the sack. For example, if used right, a tight pocket pussy with a ribbed texture will give us the stamina to please our partners for a much more extended period.
Travel-Friendly Meets Easy Maintenance
There’s a good reason why the term’ pocket pussy’ stuck. After all, the best sex toys aren’t just those that provide us with maximum stimulation. No, the best ones are the toys we can take anywhere and use at any time.
That’s the best thing with these manual masturbators. You can easily put one in your bag or briefcase and take it with you on holiday or a business trip. Let’s use a hypothetical example. Let’s say that we have to go to Guatemala for a few days due to work. And since few people there speak English, hooking up with a woman might not be an option. So, if and when we need release, we simply whip out our trusty pocket pussy and achieve sexual pleasure on the spot.
Naturally, pocket pussies are easy to clean and lend themselves well to any man who travels a lot. All it takes is some warm water and the right cleaner, and our toy is good to go for another round or six.
Exploring New Experiences
Before sex toys became so popular, men would often experiment with masturbation in different ways. Some would try stroking it with a numb hand, and others would use towels or fruit (or a pie, according to that one movie). To other men, experimenting meant finding different types of porn to masturbate to. But it all generally resulted in the same practice.
Pocket pussies bring a whole new area for men to experiment with that in mind. For example, if we use a hands-free pocket pussy, we can kick back with our hands crossed behind our heads and enjoy. The rhythmic contractions feel like an actual woman is there giving us a ride.
Of course, we can have a hands-free experience even if the pocket pussy doesn’t come with a built-in vibrating function. All we need to do is wedge it between some couch cushions, and we can hump it as if it were a real woman. We can also place it upright against the wall, on the floor, etc., and simulate some of our favorite sex poses.
Beating Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction or ED affects millions of men across the globe. And it can be incredibly disheartening to see your penis flaccid, even when you are in the mood.
So, imagine what the tightest pocket pussy with a ribbed internal texture and a tight locking mechanism can do for us. It can provide a man with the most intense stimulation of his life. And the more we use the pocket pussy, the harder and longer our erections will be.
We can just masturbate when we’re bored, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But to get that extra stimulation and pass the time without using our hands, we will want to give a pocket pussy a try. Once we have it on, all we have to do is close our eyes and engage in our favorite fantasy.
Help with Long-Distance Relationships
Sadly, long-distance relationships are more common now than ever before. Of course, couples can masturbate together on camera often, but even that can get dull. That’s why the ladies use lots of app-controlled clit teaser products to simulate sex, and that’s why fellas ought to use pocket pussies.
We can envision our partner riding us despite being thousands of miles away with a sleeve on your penis. And if she has control of our device, she can increase or decrease the stimulation level. While some app-controlled pocket pussies cost a pretty penny, it’s a small price to pay for intense sensation between distant partners.
The Perfect Sex Toy for Two
Believe it or not, pocket pussies are excellent stimulation devices, even if your partner is right there in the room with you. So here are a few situations where a pocket pussy can help out:
If your partner is in the late stages of pregnancy, she can use the pocket pussy.
If she’s on her period and doesn’t feel like having intercourse, the pocket pussy is the best bet.
During sex, she might tire herself out, but her partner would still want more; so, instead of her having to force herself to do it again, she can simply pleasure him using the toy with minimal effort on her end.
If either partner has gone through surgery and proper sex is too risky, masturbation using pocket pussies is definitely a good way to go
Two partners can simulate a threesome using a pocket pussy.
Different Types of Pocket Pussies
Real men of culture will know that a single-pocket pussy will not be enough. Combine our need for sexual gratification with the benefit of the free marketplace of ideas and an internet connection, and you have yourself a veritable smorgasbord of artificial vaginas at your disposal.
Vaginal, Oral, or Anal Sleeves
Yes, the name says it all. Depending on your particular interests, you might enjoy either an oral cavity, a vaginal opening, or an anal hole.
When we hear ‘open-ended’ and ‘closed-ended’, it usually refers to the opposite end of the device, i.e., the one without the silicone pussy. As the name suggests, an open-ended pocket pussy comes with two holes, one on each end. On the other hand, closed-ended devices only have one opening. At the end of the sleeve, there’s a roadblock, so to speak, that prevents the penis from going any further.
With differently shaped pocket pussies, you can enjoy simulating oral or anal sex in the comfort of your own home. The principle is the same — it’s a realistic replica of an anus or a woman’s mouth with a ribbed interior and more features that might tickle our fancy.
Open-Ended and Closed-Ended Models
There are benefits to both of these models, of course. For example, we can clean an open-ended pocket pussy incredibly easily. All it takes is a bit of rinsing and sliding a brush all the way through several times. Of course, closed-ended models can actually be stretched out, giving the tip of our penis an extra sensation and a jolly-good time.
They’re in luck to anyone who’s ever wanted to be with Riley Reed, Alura Jenson, Lisa Ann, or Brittanya Razavi. Nowadays, any porn star worth her salt can find a decent adult toy manufacturer and have them model a toy after her vagina. And that’s great news for porn lovers; people with big and small penises alike, be they girthy or lean, can sample a bit of porn goodness with these pocket pussy models.
The cool thing about these particular toys is that they simulate an actual pussy that we’ve all seen online. And since each porn star has a unique set of genitalia to her, we can sample their goods and figure out which ones work for us. In addition, we can switch between porn stars depending on our mood. After that, the sky’s the limit.
We care for our gay friends out there, and we know that they won’t be satisfied with a pocket pussy, or even a female pocket anus. That’s why Fleshjacks exist. These pocket anuses simulate the inner workings of a man’s butt. So, we can recommend these to man-booty lovers out there.
Stamina Training Units
Stamina training units, or STUs, differ from other masturbators in one key area. They are specifically designed to make us last longer in the sack. The inner canal of these masturbators is smooth and pillow-like, gripping the penis just enough when we thrust slowly. The faster we go, the more the canal stimulates us and gets us close to climax.
By varying our thrusts and focusing on how we penetrate, we can practice delaying an orgasm while staying hard. Few devices can help us with that better than a stamina training unit.
Clear Pocket Pussies
A clear or an ice pocket pussy has everything that a regular masturbator has, apart from one key feature. Namely, with most models, both the sleeve and the base are completely see-through!
What might be the benefit of penetrating a transparent pocket pussy, one might ask? Think of all the hentai videos where we can see an X-ray scene of the actual sex and ejaculation. So that right there is the market that a clear pocket pussy is targeting — men who combine the pleasure of sexual intercourse with the curiosity of a mechanic wanting to see how a machine operates.
Vibrator Pocket Pussies
Some models of pocket vaginas come with spaces that can hold one or more bullet vibrators. These added tools can help stimulate us further, adding to the experience of hands-free masturbating.
A single bullet vibrator will usually do the trick. But if we want to go with some more intense stuff, we can try two or three vibrators simultaneously. The tremors from this experience will leave every strapping lad eager for more.
Balls-Deep Pocket Pussies
In regular retail, the pocket vajayjay you end up buying will usually fit the size and shape of an average cock. But there are some balls-deep models out there that earn their name. These masturbators are longer and deeper than usual, making even the thickest dick feel small. Such a monster would swallow any pecker whole and allow a man some intense stimulation.
Discrete pocket pussies are small, versatile, and inconspicuous enough for any man to use in public without being spotted. Said models can fit in any bag, briefcase, or pocket.
Tips on Using Pocket Pussy Toys
By this point, we imagine that most of our readers went out and ordered at least one Riley Reid pocket pussy, fully waterproof and with small silicone ridges on the inside. But before using it, we recommend to those brave souls to give our list of handy tips a read. It might just end up increasing their pleasure with the device.
Warm It Up
The same principle applies to real skin and silicone. Therefore, it’s a good idea to warm our toy up before showing it some tender love and happiness.
But what’s the best way to get a warm cocksleeve? Well, here’s what we recommend doing:
Soaking the toy in warm or hot water (if it’s fully waterproof, like our Riley Reid example from earlier)
Wrapping the toy in a clean, hot blanket or towel
Buying a self-warming toy
Buying a pocket pussy warmer.
We all felt that we needed to switch hands when masturbating simply to feel something different at one point or another. Now, apply that line of thinking to the grip we have on the pocket pussy. The results will inevitably be the same.
By having a firmer or softer grip on the pocket pussy, we can feel stimulated in new and inventive ways. The same goes with switching from our dominant to our non-dominant hand. And if we’re particularly acrobatic, we can try gripping the toy with our feet.
We’ve stated it earlier, but it bears repeating. Suppose a pocket pussy user already has a partner. In that case, it’s a good idea to use the device as part of their sexual activities. Pocket pussies are great for foreplay, teasing, edging, and other fun stuff. They work exceptionally well if we combine them with other devices and accessories (e.g., a cock ring/pocket vulva combo is heavenly).
Lube, Lube, Lube
No matter how many times we try it, we can’t penetrate a pocket pussy without lube. That way, we reduce the risk of injuring ourselves via penetration. In addition, we avoid wear and tear on our little silicone toy, prolonging its shelf life.
Hands-Free Is the Way to Be
We highly advise trying as many hands-free options with the pocket pussy as possible. Here are some ideas to get everyone going:
Fitting the device between the mattress and the box-spring of the bed
Placing the device onto a table on the same level as our member
Putting the device close to a mirror so we can see the penetration at a different angle
Jamming the device stuck between the door and the door frame
Sliding the device between two bars of a terrace fence or a staircase baluster.
Pocket Pussy Buyers’ Guide
A pocket masturbator device needs to fit the penis. If it’s too big, there will be no stimulation. On the other hand, if it’s too small, it can injure the surface of the penis.
Certain materials, such as latex can cause an allergic reaction. Unfortunately, a typical masturbator contains more than one material, and men’s skins will react differently. So, once again, we stress that research prior to buying anything is crucial.
Beginner users of pocket pussies should not strive for the priciest, most complicated models. They should instead start things off with something simple and modest. Then, once they’ve stacked their masturbation experience level, they can move on to the more complex stuff.
People who masturbate a lot, i.e., at least five times a day, will need a pricey, high-quality model. Otherwise, they will go through the inexpensive poor-quality items too often and spend too much money on replacing them. But for people who do not masturbate that often, a basic model might just do the trick.
As we mentioned earlier, checking the materials is essential primarily for safety reasons. But it’s also crucial because:
We’ll know how to clean the device best
We’ll figure out how to dispose of it when it stops working
Finally, we’ll decide on what material feels best against the skin of our penis.
Different models vary in how they can stimulate the penis. Low-level pocket pussies, for instance, don’t offer a lot in terms of sensitivity, merely having a soft inner sleeve with a few creases and compartments. On the other hand, the high-end stuff provides a lot more variety for seasoned users.
If we can rinse, soap, and air dry our pocket pussy of choice, it’s one for the taking. Any model that’s hard to clean will not be worth our time, and leaving it uncleaned will result in breakdowns, foul odors, and risks of bacterial infection.
A model doesn’t always need to be discrete. But having one that we can hide in plain sight is always the more exciting option, primarily if we aim for some outdoorsy adventure.
A cheap pocket pussy is roughly the equivalent of a cheap one-night stand. It’s good for getting off, but afterward will result in disappointment. However, buying a device with a price measured in multiple thousands of dollars is also not an option. Why overpay for something that might not even feel that good?
Luckily, there is a way around this problem, and it can be summed up in two sexy, spicy, attractive, sensual, mind-bogglingly sultry words — market research. Let’s look at the highest-rated models with the best feedback, and we line them up based on their prices. Then we compare the cheapest and the most expensive. That is the average price range we’re aiming for, and it’s where our pocket pussy of choice is.
Pocket Pussies Summarized
There are many benefits to sliding one’s Johnson in a silicone replica of Riley Reid’s private parts (yes, we have a favorite, we’re not ashamed to admit it!). However, there are also some safety risks involved if we buy the wrong kind of pocket pussy. Therefore, we highly recommend to any of our fellow men reading this text to do their due diligence and explore these devices thoroughly. Once they find the one that suits them, a whole new world of pleasure awaits.
If you are a fan of tv-shows like “The L Word,” “Broad City,” “Sense8”, and “Orange Is the New Black,” you’ve probably noticed some of the steamy scenes featuring its royal highness — a strap-on. But if you rely solely on Hollywood for knowledge, you might get the wrong picture that strap-ons only go hand-in-hand with queer sex or the Dom/sub play.
The truth is, anyone can use a strap-on. It can be a fun addition to your sex life, allowing you to experiment and increase intimacy with your partner. But if you’ve never owned a strap-on before, you probably have many questions like how to use this sex toy and what kinds of strap-ons are there.
Keep reading to learn all there is to know about strap-ons!
What Is a Strap-On?
A strap-on is a sex toy typically made up of two parts: a dildo and a harness (used to secure the dildo to a person). In most cases, the harness has an O-ring you put a flared-based dildo through to hold it in place. As you’ve probably already assumed, it is meant to mimic the experience of having a penis.
The person who “straps on” the dildo usually wears it low on the body, with the flat surface of the dildo resting over the pubic area. Aside from the two main parts, some strap-ons can also have an internal or external bullet vibrator, which allows the person wearing it to feel the stimulation.
These strap-on sex toys come in various styles to cater to different needs, including strap-free, hollow, curved, and detachable options. Anyone can use them, regardless of genitalia, for masturbation or penetrative sex with a partner of any gender or sexual orientation. That means strap-ons are suitable for vaginal, anal, and oral penetration.
Most strap-ons you see in sex toy stores are designed for women. However, there are also models with hollow dildos for people with erectile dysfunction or smaller penises.
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Types of Strap-Ons
Generally speaking, there are two main types of strap-ons: the ones with straps and the ones without them. But you will notice that strap-ons come in different sizes and styles, and each one is meant to suit a certain technique or create specific sensations. That’s why you can find various harnesses and strap-on dildos to mix and match. Here are the three most common strap-on harness styles.
Underwear-style harnesses resemble briefs or boxers and are designed with comfort in mind. You can wear them all day or during sex and avoid chafing — something most people face with traditional strap-ons. Underwear-style strap-ons are a great choice if you are a beginner in pegging and strap-on penetration since there’s no need to adjust them.
As you can guess by its name, this version looks like a thong. It features one strap between the legs and butt cheeks and one around the waist.
This harness option looks like a regular jockstrap. It goes around the waist and over both butt cheeks.
Some models center around plastic or metal O-rings, allowing you to switch dildos during sex easily. You can put on any strap-on dildo or a sex toy that features a flat base, and the ring will keep it in place.
Unisex harnesses have a crotchless design that fits around the waist and legs and adjustable straps. That leaves enough space for the user’s clitoris or shaft to be accessible.
Strap-on dildos come in every shape, size, color, and material imaginable. You can pick the ones that look and feel like a real penis or the more playful ones. Take a look at some fun strap-on dildos you can combine with a harness for successful strap-on sex.
Curved tip dildos are designed to hit the G-spot in vulva-owners or the P-spot in people with prostates. They are usually not too long and are slightly curved upward.
As previously mentioned, originally intended for men with erectile dysfunction, hollow strap-on dildos allow penis owners to insert their shaft into a toy to add more girth or prolong the sex sessions.
Double dildos require a particular type of strap-on harness. You can use this strap-on for simultaneous vulva-to-vulva or vulva-to-anal penetration of the wearing and the receiving partner.
Strap-on dildos suitable for pegging are usually thinner and curved. Moreover, they come with a slimmer, more practical harness that makes anal sex more comfortable.
Strapless strap-ons don’t have a harness but instead comprise a dildo with a vaginal plug on the other end. They stay in place because they are inserted in the wearer’s vagina or anus, stimulating their P-spot or G-spot. Strapless dildos are meant for simultaneous anal and vaginal insertion. Use them for pegging or penetration between two women.
You can use different standalone vibrators and dildos with a removable harness, like bunny-style vibrators or prostate massagers. Or you can buy vibrating strap-ons that come with a dildo and cord-attached remote that controls it and enjoy extra stimulation.
Why People Like Strap-Ons
These sex toys allow users to experience penetrating their partner in a unique way. For instance, women might enjoy the role reversal if they have a partner with a penis. In addition, men may want to experience anal play because the P-spot stimulation can lead to a powerful anal orgasm.
People with vulvas might also like the different experience of being penetrated anally or vaginally via strap-on, helping them reach the G-spot. Some people also prefer having oral sex while sporting a strap-on. Such sex toys are used in power plays. One person, generally the one wearing the strap-on, dominates the other.
How to Use a Strap-On
Although it looks simple enough, using a strap-on is not quite an intuitive process. So, if you are new to the whole experience, here are some pointers.
Find a Model That Fits You
As we discussed before, the two main components that make a strap-on are the harness and the dildo. For everything to go smoothly, you need both of them to fit you like a glove.
Wash Before Each Use
The general rule of thumb with sex toys is to keep them clean to avoid getting harmful bacteria into your body. So, wash your strap-ons before and after each use.
Use Plenty of Lube
Lubricants are a must. They will enhance your strap-on play, no matter what kind of penetration you are into. However, be careful to opt for a lube that pairs well with your strap-on’s materials. For instance, silicone-based lube can damage silicone dildos and put your health at risk, so you should avoid mixing them.
Talk to Your Partner Before You Begin
If you want to introduce strap-ons into your sex life, always check if your partner is up for it as well. If you are on the same page, open communication is one of the keys to making it work. Wearers can find it difficult to judge the penetration intensity accurately, so they should listen to the partner’s feedback.
Make Sure Everything Is Adjusted Properly
Take time to check if the harness and dildo are adjusted so you can have more control. If the dildo or harness is too loose, you won’t be able to make smooth, stroking motions. You will probably have to stop and adjust several times, ruining the mood.
Choose the Right Position
You might want to start with a cowgirl position if you are a novice. The wearer should lie on their back, allowing the partner to control the insertable length. Once you gain some experience and feel more comfortable, you can try other sex positions.
Take It Slowly
Using these sex toys requires a bit of technique which you learn through practice. That is especially true for vulva owners who are learning to wield a new body part.
The Best Sex Positions for a Strap-On Play
Technically nothing prevents you from using a strap-on in every possible sex position, except for your and your partner’s boundaries. Still, the easiest positions to get started are rider positions, doggy style, and missionary. They offer maximum stability and slow insertion, making it less likely the strap-on will fall out.
Those who prefer the back entrance can also try penetrating from behind while the partner kneels or lies on the bed. Depending on the partners’ height, penetration while standing up might also be an option.
Shopping for a Strap-On
Since there are so many options to choose from, buying a strap-on requires time and money. It can take a while to figure out what you like, and you might not be as lucky as to find the perfect harness-dildo combo on your first try. But if you think the strap-on play will become a big part of your sex life, it is worth the investment.
Harnesses usually consist of thick cotton, soft plastics, nylon, or leather. Of course, all those materials are body-safe, but more expensive ones, like leather, typically don’t cause as much chafing.
The harness is supposed to fit tightly but not irritate or cut too deeply into your skin. At the same time, it shouldn’t be wobbly or stretchy because the dildo will pull away from it. So, aim for adjustable harnesses that you get to fit snugly around your body.
If you can, try a couple of harnesses on in the store before deciding. That way, you will get a sense of dimensions and size.
When choosing strap-on dildos, consider materials you and your partner prefer. For instance, you might like silicone because it’s soft, flexible, and the most lifelike. Or perhaps a glass because it’s hard, smooth, and allows for temperature play.
That being said, the most reliable materials are glass, stainless steel, and 100% silicone. Materials to avoid are phthalates, rubber, and jelly. Phthalates are often put in sex toys because they are cheap and increase flexibility. However, they are also linked to a number of health risks like asthma, low IQ in fetuses, etc.)
Cheap materials like rubber and jelly expose you to toxic chemicals like phthalates and are also highly porous. That means you can never completely sterilize them.
In any case, eager newbies should choose a smaller dildo at first, especially if they are planning to do anal penetration. Then, as you gain more experience and skills, slowly expand the range of dildos you put inside your harness. It’s important to note that you should never use butt plugs with strap-ons because they are not meant for an in-and-out motion.
How to Care for and Clean Strap-Ons
Not being careful about hygiene can transfer STIs between you and your partners and cause urinary tract infections and yeast infections. So, take time to clean and sterilize your toys.
Nylon and thick cotton harnesses and most dildos are machine washable. However, latex and leather harnesses and vibrating dildos usually require hand-washing with warm water and antibacterial soap. Another option is to purchase special sex toy cleaners. As for non-vibrating dildos made of silicone, stainless steel, or glass, you can put them in boiling water for ten minutes to sanitize them.
The specific instructions will depend on the strap-on material and model you choose. So, make sure to read the instructions that come with sex toys. If you are still unsure how to clean the dildo or harness after consulting the user’s manual, reach out to the manufacturer. Proper cleaning is crucial!
Store your strap-on in the original packaging, a satin bag, or a plastic storage box. By doing so, you will prevent the dust and dirt buildup.
Common Myths About Strap-Ons
Although sex toys are no longer a taboo topic, there are still many misconceptions about them, aided by poor portrayals in movies and TV shows. So, let’s look at a few common myths about strap-ons.
Only Lesbian Couples Use Strap-Ons
Anyone can use this sex toy, no matter their partners’ genders or sexual orientations. As mentioned above, there are strap-ons for women, men, and even those suitable for self-pleasure.
Only Gay Men Enjoy Penetration/Pegging
Again, anyone can like anal penetration, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The anus is just another body part that can receive pleasure, like the vagina or penis.
You Can’t Use It Solo
You can use a strap-on during a solo play. Tie a strap-on to a chair, bed, or other pieces of furniture and add it to your masturbation routine. Or you can purchase a special harness that ties a dildo to your foot and pleasure yourself in a kneeling position.
The Best Strap-Ons for Every Kind of Play
We’ve rounded up a list of user favorites to help you decide where to start your strap-on hunt. Check them out!
Fetish Fantasy Series First Timers Strap-On Set — Purple
This 5.5-inch dildo is practically invented for beginners and pegging. It’s of the perfect size, easy to put on, for smooth insertion and maximum pleasure.
This harness is very comfortable for more prolonged use since it doesn’t limit your movements. It is also practical since you can combine it with any silicone dildo. But don’t let the higher price get you down. Once you try this adjustable harness, you will wish you never wasted money on cheap ones.
Sportsheets Lace Strap On Corsette — Red
This harness is as pretty as it is practical. It offers excellent resilience and control and comes with three interchangeable O-rings to mix and match different dildos.
Sportsheets New Comers Strap-on and Dildo Set
This harness kit includes an adjustable harness and a tiny dildo with only four inches of insertable length. It is great for pegging and those who don’t want to spend a fortune until they know if the strap-on sex is something they enjoy.
Perfect Fit Zoro 5.5″ Strap On Kit — Purple
Zoro is a cross between a jockstrap and an underwear strap-on. It features an elastic waistband and straps for a stable fit, no matter the user’s body shape. This silicone dildo is hollow and lightweight, making it a good option for both men and women.
Strap U Vibrating Strapless Silicone Strap-On Dildo
Many people feel strapless strap-ons are intimidating because you need to hold them in place using your vaginal muscles. However, wearers report that keeping the toy in place in such a manner is the only way to enjoy the strap-on play. Up to you to decide!
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Strap this harness around your thigh to provide your partner with another penetration tool, or wrap it around a pillow during solo play. Of course, thigh harnesses are not for everyone. But they can be a good alternative when you want to get physically closer to your partner while letting them enjoy penetration.
Strap U Unity Double Penetration Strap On Harness Black
If you wish to experiment with double penetration, this strap-on is a good choice. It contains two O-rings to hold two dildos — the upper one for vaginal and the lower one for anal penetration.
Strap-ons can be a great addition to your sex life. They let you experiment with switching roles, create fantasy scenarios, and try things like power play or double penetration. However, finding the best strap-on for you is like Goldilocks’s porridge: it takes a few tries to discover the one that is just right.
So, give yourself time to learn to wield this toy and discover all the fun ways to reach more pleasure and the best orgasms ever. You might even open the door to a whole new niche you didn’t even know existed.