Any fun, sexy thing you do in bed or to get yourself off can be kinked up, at least a little, including the way you use your favorite masturbation sleeve. Whether you want to add some power play to the bedroom or you’re looking to try something different, your sleeve or stroker can come in quite handy. (Pun definitely intended.)
Play alone or with a partner, whatever you prefer. Add some role play into the mix or keep it simple. The only thing that ever matters once you get kinky is that you have a good time. Here’s how you can have kinky fun with your masturbation sleeve.
Let Someone Else Drive
Most guys tend to play with their strokers and sleeves solo, but there’s no reason that you can’t use it with a partner. When you’re ready to kink it up, ask your partner to take control. They get to decide how fast or slow to go, when they stop, and when you can get off. You won’t know what’s going to happen next or when you’ll get relief. It’s one of the ultimate teases, letting someone else decide your pleasure.
A kinky note: You don’t ever have to do a kinky thing that you don’t like or that makes you uncomfortable. Only give up as much control and power as you want. Consent is everything. If something doesn’t feel right, say something.
Edge Yourself
Sure, a masturbation sleeve is usually a one and done kind of thing. You jack yourself off until you get off, and then you’re done. But what if you decided to do something different? Edged orgasms are in the kinky family of orgasm control. You can do it with a partner or alone, but the result is the same. Edging yourself leads to massive orgasms.
It’s easier said than done, but anyone can edge themselves. Stroke yourself with your sleeve right up to the point you want to orgasm. Then come to a dead stop. Don’t move your toy and try not to think to hard. Relax. Let your body calm down a bit. And then start again. Stroke yourself until you’re at the edge of an orgasm, then stop again. You can do it once or multiple times, but the longer you edge yourself, the bigger the release.
Orgasm Denial
Another fun, kinky thing to do as part of orgasm control is orgasm denial. Instead of edging yourself, get to the edge and just…stop. That’s right, don’t let yourself orgasm at all. You can use this in conjunction with edging as a form of kinky torture, or you can use your masturbation sleeve until you want to climax and then stop and walk away.
Some people who enjoy orgasm denial will do this to themselves for days, even weeks, before they have an orgasm. It’s a kind of a mental and physical pain to deny yourself what you really want. Hold out as long as it’s fun to do. Like edged orgasms but on a bigger level, the end result when you finally get off will be intense and explosive.
Make It Hurt…But in a Good Way
Not everyone who likes to get kinky enjoys pain, but some people really are masochists. You might be too, even on just a small level. Making something hurt in a good way means you feel pleasure at the same time that you feel discomfort. Edged or denied orgasms are a form of this, but in this case, we mean something a little different.
You know that moment after you’ve stroked yourself and you get off when your penis is super sensitive? Any little touch is almost unbearable? If you can stand it, keep using your stroker after you come, during that moment when it hurts so good. You might even be able to give yourself a second orgasm (without the ejaculation) if you can handle the sensations and stimulation.
Conclusion
You don’t have to be into BDSM to enjoy kinky fun. You don’t even have to have a partner to get off in a kinky way. All you have to be willing to do is try new things that you might not have considered before. Your masturbation sleeve is more than the toy you use to get yourself off or how you give your hand a break. It can be the gateway to the next kinky thing you try — alone or with a partner.
Do you like to get kinky with your stroker? What’s your fave way to use it? Share your experiences down in the comments!
