For every new way you find to play with a new toy — alone or with a partner — that means you learn more about what turns you on, what feels good, and what you don’t like. There’s nothing wrong with using your favorite dildo in the same way over and over again. When you know what you like, there’s not a lot of reason to change it up.
But if you’re curious about what else your dildo could do for you, we’ve got a few ideas. Once you’ve tried our first suggestions for playing with your dildo, here are five more ways to play you might want to explore.
Take Sexy Pictures
Taking sexy selfies can be a great boost for your self-confidence and a way to tease your partner until they can’t wait to get naked with you. The kind of pictures you take with your dildo, and who you show them to, all depends on what makes you most comfortable. Your pictures might be for your eyes only or you might post them on social media. Just remember, if you send a nude or suggestive picture to someone or post it online, you don’t have any control over what someone else does with it — so be careful.
What kind of pictures can you take? Try one of these ideas or make up your own:
- Blowjob practice
- Penetration with your dildo
- Holding your dildo in a suggestive way
- Showing off your dildo collection
Masturbate For/With Your Partner
If you’re in a relationship, masturbation might not be at the top of your sexy list, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be. Masturbating with your partner or while they watch you can be a sexy, sensual, and very intimate thing to do. There are plenty of reasons to try it.
Using your dildo, you can put on a show or give your partner ideas for how to make you feel good when it’s their turn. There’s no right way to do this, either. It’s about doing what feels good to you whether that’s blowjobs, vaginal penetration, anal penetration, or any other sexy thing you can think of.
Fantasy Lover
Whether you’re single and craving something big and thick, or you’re in a relationship and you have fantasies about a threesome or some other sexy fun, dildos make great fantasy lovers. You can choose the size, shape, and girth of the dildo, and then decide for yourself who this fantasy is.
- Will you tease them with your tongue or will they tease you?
- Are they a sexy stranger or someone you can’t stop thinking about?
- Is this a threesome or a secret love affair?
Your fantasies are your own, and with a dildo that hits all the right places, you can let your imagination go wild.
Deep Throat Practice
Not everyone loves giving head, and that’s okay. But some people who enjoy it, really love it. It doesn’t matter if you’re single or you want to surprise your partner, wrapping your mouth and throat around a thick, firm dildo is a legitimate way to play with it. Your reasons are your own, as long as you’re enjoying every second of it.
One of the best styles to use for your deep throat action is a dildo with a suction cup. As long as you have a flat, smooth surface, you can mount your dildo nearly anywhere to find the best angle. Like to be on your knees? Mount it to a wall. Got a shower fantasy? Take it into the bathroom with you!
Strap-on Fun
Dildos aren’t just fun for one. They’re definitely a couples sex toy, assuming you each have a craving for penetration. Pegging is one of the most common uses of dildos with a strap-on harness, but it’s not the only option. If neither of you has a penis, a dildo and strapon will definitely give you whatever you need — vaginal penetration, blowjob, or anal fun.
Look for a harness that’s comfortable to wear, and a dildo that fits your needs. Anal penetration may require something small at first, depending on your experience. Not every vagina or mouth wants a huge dildo, either. If you and your partner love using a strap-on harness, you can build a dildo collection so you have a dong for every desire and need!
Conclusion
How many ways are there to play with a dildo? As many as you can possibly imagine. For every fantasy, every desire, and every craving you have that involves penetration, a dildo can be a fun way to play. There’s no limit on how much pleasure you can get from a dildo or how many dildos you can add to your collection.
How do you like to play with a dildo? Share your favorite tip down in the comments!
