
Buying Your First Vibrator: What You Need to Know
When you’re new to the idea of a sex toy, like a vibrator, looking at all your options can seem a bit intimidating. Once you get past the excitement – it’s a bit like being in a candy store – eventually, you have to narrow it down to something, anything. Every person and what turns them on is different and so is every sex toy. You might not pick the perfect vibrator the first time, but with a little information, you have a better chance at success.
Before you buy your first vibrator, here’s what you need to know to help you decide which one to try first.
Think About Where You Want to Feel It
Deal with the Volume Issue
Because vibrators buzz, hum, pulse, and do a variety of other things, they’re going to make noise. Not all vibes are the same though with some sounding like a jackhammer like the Original Magic Wand while others, like many bullet vibrators, are very quiet and discreet. If you’ve got thin walls, nosy neighbors, or anything that makes you fearful about getting caught, look for a vibrator that advertises itself as discreet.
Consider the Shape
Pick Your Sensation
Good vibrators provide multiple types of sensations from a steady speed to something with patterns. Basic vibrators usually offer one or two types of buzzing but allow you to increase the intensity. You might not know what you like until you play with a few toys but you’ve got more choices than you realize. Vibrators can do a lot of things: deep rumbles, stinging vibrations, pulsing throbs, high speed, suction, sonic waves, and more. The choices are almost endless.
Play Alone, Together, or Both
Know Your Materials
For years, basic vibrators were made of hard plastic. Over the years, body safe silicone has become popular – and for good reason. The material is safer for you. It’s easier to clean and sanitize. And, to many people, it feels better in and against your body. If you can, before you buy your first vibrator, go to a store and touch a variety of sex toys. Even silicone sex toys don’t all feel the same. Some vibes will be firmer and others will be softer and more bendable.
Take Care of Your Vibrator
Conclusion
Picking a vibrator isn’t rocket science, and it definitely shouldn’t be a source of stress. Remember, sex toys are meant to be fun and enjoyable! But if you’re new to the idea of vibrating pleasure or if this is your first sex toy, knowing your options can help you decide. Don’t be surprised if one vibe that works for other people doesn’t feel good to you. You’re not defective – it’s just the wrong vibrator for you. Try again until you learn what stimulation you like most and where it feels the best to you.
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