For some people, a butt plug is always kinky — any kind of “butt stuff” is. But for some, it’s a sex toy like anything else — you play with it because it feels good. If you’re in the second category, and you’re looking for new ways to enjoy an old favorite, we’ve got ideas.
Whether you’re new to the idea of kink or curious about exploring it, your butt plug can be a great way to begin. Use dirty talk, play with dominance and submission, or just enjoy it as part of the kinky fun you’re already having. As with everything, there’s no right way to play as long as everyone consents.
Note: With all anal play, including butt plugs, always use plenty of lube and take out your plug if it hurts in a way you don’t enjoy.
Wear It In Public
Butt plugs are a hands-free toy, once you’ve got it in. No one knows what’s up your butt unless you tell or show them. For this reason, it can be a kinky favorite of many people to “tell” (consensually) their partner to wear one when they’re not at home. Of course, you don’t have to wait for anyone to suggest it. You can do it yourself whenever you want.
Wear underwear when you do, especially since you’ll need lube for your plug, and you don’t want that getting on your clothes. This is especially true if you’re wearing a skirt or dress. Butt plugs can pop out if you relax. That’s not something you want to explain at work, at a restaurant, or anywhere, really.
Take Sexy Pictures
In a kinky relationship, you might put in your butt plug and use this as the source of your sexting fun. But you might also want to show the kinky world that your butt plug looks hella good, too. If you’re tired of the same shot of boobs, vagina, penis, or balls, a booty shot with a butt plug in is a fun way to go.
Taking sexy pictures isn’t inherently kinky unless it feels that way to you. And you don’t have to share your pictures to make it a kinky act. If you’re turning beet red simply thinking about it, pointing your phone at your butt (or the mirror) might be enough to make it kinky AF. Only share your pictures with people you trust or if you feel safe enough online — such as with an anonymous account.
Wear Your Butt Plug In Your Kinky Scene
A kinky scene can be a spanking, some bondage, or kinky sex. Sometimes putting your butt plug in can be part of your kinky scene. You’ll add different sensations and give your partner something else to comment on, especially if either of you get off on the idea of being “dirty” or “naughty.”
You’ll also enhance the sensations you feel. The impact of a flogger, paddle, or bare hand on your butt takes on a different meaning when you’re clenching around a plug. Having your body positioned in different ways for bondage while “holding” onto a plug isn’t the same as standing still while you wear one. And if vaginal penetration is your thing, you’ll feel double-stuffed with your plug in.
Use Plugs as Part of “Anal Training”
Getting your butt ready for anal penetration isn’t necessarily kinky, but calling it “anal training” can be. It takes the (not quite) mundane act of helping your body get used to penetration and adds a level of submission and power to the entire process.
- You might wear a butt plug when your partner wants you to as part of “training.”
- You may increase the size of your butt plug at their direction — but only with your consent.
- It might be one of your kinky “tasks” they assign to you so you can be ready for them.
If you’re playing with butt plugs as part of this kind of training, it’s a good idea to have multiple plugs of different sizes. You can get a butt plug training kit or buy several sizes from small to large.
Conclusion
Butt plugs can be as kinky or as vanilla as you want them to be. And most things are only kinky the first few times you try them. But if you’re looking for a new way to play or you’re exploring butt plugs for the first time, consider adding an element of fun and sexiness with kink. It’s a great way to explore a new sex toy and play with power in your relationship. You might not be ready or interested in full-time kink between you and a partner, but in the right situation, it could be a total turn on.
Have you gotten kinky with a butt plug? Do you want to? Share your thoughts down in the comments!
