If you’re the type of person who likes to push your own boundaries and limits to discover exactly what your body can handle, you’re not alone. Sex toys provide pleasure, but they also let you explore new territory. For those who love penetration and want something beyond the average size, huge dildos can be a lot of fun.
Before you buy the biggest dildo you can find, here’s what you need to know about playing with one.
Warm Up Your Body First
Whatever turns you on is where you’ll want to start. Watch porn, touch yourself, or ask your partner to make you feel good. There’s no right way to get yourself aroused, but penetration rarely feels good without some kind of warm-up first. Maybe you start with sexting and thinking about using your new dildo and that does it for you. All that matters is that you’re aroused (a little or a lot) before you begin. This will help your body relax and make penetration easier.
Add Lots of Lube
Lubricant is a great idea for any kind of penetration but with a big dildo, it’s practically mandatory. If you’re enjoying vaginal penetration, your body may not produce enough moisture to keep you comfortable. And if you’re playing with anal, lube is an absolute requirement. As you increase the size of the dildo you play with, you’ll want to increase the amount of lube you use. A six-inch dildo may not need as much lube as a 10-inch dildo, and if you’re playing with something bigger, you’ll need even more.
Go Slowly and Take Your Time
Until your body is used to the size of your dildo, you’ll want to ease into things. Take your time and let how you feel be your guide. If anything hurts, stop. Ease off a bit, add lube, or do something else. This isn’t a race, and there’s no prize for jamming this dildo into your body. You don’t have to be under a deadline here. Ease it in a little, until it doesn’t feel good, then back off, then ease it in a little farther. Keep going until you’re happy with the results.
Stimulate Other Parts of Your Body
If your body isn’t relaxed and comfortable, you may struggle with penetration. While you’re easing your new dildo into your body slowly, also stimulate other parts of your body. You can masturbate with your hand or another sex toy or ask your partner to do it for you. All that matters is that you feel good, you’re turned on, and you’re able to relax. This will help your muscles relax and help you have deeper penetration with less discomfort.
Keep Trying
If you feel pain or discomfort, definitely stop playing with your gigantic dildo, but it’s okay to keep trying — at another time. You’re stretching your body and your mind to see how much you can handle. The outcome you want won’t always happen in a single evening or sexy moment. You may need multiple tries and practice with your dildo to get it in all the way. As long as you’re enjoying the effort, keep trying. Make sure to include plenty of other sexy fun in between so getting a dildo into you doesn’t start to feel like a job or something. Remember, this is supposed to be fun, so only keep trying if you’re having a good time.
It’s Okay if You Never Get It All the Way In
If you only get your massive dildo part way into your body, it’s okay. Especially if it feels good wherever you stop. Your pleasure is what matters most when you use adult toys of any kind. For people with vaginas, having your cervix hit with a penis or a dildo usually isn’t pleasant and may hurt. And if you’re using your dildo for anal penetration, going deeper doesn’t always add any more pleasure or stimulation. You haven’t failed as long as using your dildo feels good to you.
Conclusion
Big dildos can be intimidating for some people while others look at them and think, “Challenge accepted!” To keep things fun, it’s important to be patient with your body and take your time. No matter how you play your dildo, all that matters is that you feel good doing it.
Have you ever used a big dildo? Do you think you’ll try in the future? Let us know in the comments!
