Sexual Bucket List: 25 Things to Try Before You Die

So you’ve got a boyfriend, girlfriend, or a super hot friend-with-benefits, and you’re itching to spice things up. Whether it’s new love, lasting commitment, or no-strings-attached fun, we all crave excitement. A sexual bucket list adds mischief, surprise, and intimacy that can turn good sex into unforgettable memories.

Why A Sexual Bucket List Matters.

Life’s short, and we’re here to create fun, romantic memories – so why not treat your bedroom like a theme park for adults filled with wild bucket list ideas? The best part? You don’t need a passport or a five-star hotel to unlock unforgettable pleasure. With just the right mindset and a little creativity, every corner of your life can become a thrill ride. Sometimes, all it takes is a “yes” and a little planning.

Here are 25 Bucket List Ideas to Try Now

From swimming nude to hotel-style room service, this list has something for every mood—wild, tender, playful, or downright filthy. Try one, try them all, and don’t forget the toys. Let’s turn your sex life into something worth bragging about (or whispering about after midnight).

1. Skinny Dipping Under the Moonlight

Who hasn’t dreamed of stripping down and plunging into a lake or ocean naked? Skinny dipping is classic, cliche, and thrilling all at once. Picture this: it’s midnight, stars above, and you and your partner giggling as you sneak into the water. The cool splash, the secrecy—it’s sexy. Just don’t forget to bring a towel for the walk back to the car.

For extra fun, slip some Vibrating Pleasure Beads beneath the surface. They’re like little jelly jewels that hum as you swim, turning your skinny dip into a full-on party between the thighs. It feels magical.

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2. Striptease in the Kitchen

Surprise your sweetheart by dancing over that dinner you just cooked or lunch leftovers… in your skivvies, cue the music and go loose – the shimmy and wiggle are hilarious and hot. If clothes are falling off, that’s bonus points.

3. Hot Road-Trip Hookup

Road trips can be romantic. Why not mix in something really exciting? Stop at an empty overlook, pop the trunk, and try a quickie or some heavy petting. Use a Be Shane Girth Enhancing Extension to feel like a rockstar.

The speedometer needle might tick up, but the sparks will fly. Just remember: keep safe. This adventure is the ultimate “road trip” addition – Because nothing says sexual bucket list ideas like spontaneous car nookie.

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4. Sunset Cruise on a Boat

Some bucket lists call for world travel, so why not play cabin crew on your own little ship? Rent a small boat or hop on a cheap sunset cruise with your boo. As the sun dips and the water sparkles, slip out a vibrator. Under those romantic orange skies, have your partner turn it on slowly… then get busy below deck or even on deck if you’re bold. A sunset cruise is already romantic, but with waves lapping and a vibrator, it becomes an adventure.

5. Haunted House Thrills (Sexy Scares!)

Haunted houses make you scream—perfect for some trembling skin-to-skin thrills.. Grab a partner and lace up your boots for a spooky corn maze or haunted mansion. If you want to up the ante, wander in blindfolded (eek!) with one of you gently (or not so gently) teasing the other with a Silicone Remote Bullet.

Jumpscares, heavy breathing, and adrenaline turn horror into something intimate. Bonus: everyone’s too busy shrieking to notice you getting handsy.

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6. Recreate Your First Kiss… On a Roller Coaster

Remember that first kiss you guys shared? It was probably sweet and awkward. Now level it up: sneak a kiss on the Ferris wheel—or better, go for it on a roller coaster. The heart’s racing—add a kiss and a little tongue, and it’s unforgettable.

7. Music Festival Shenanigans

You thought concerts were just for head-banging? Wrong. Grab those earplugs and a vibe (I’m looking at you, OhMiBod Lumen LED Pleasure Plug). Or tuck a remote egg in her fanny pack (festival chic!).

When the beat drops, hit that remote—your secret mini-raver inside will thank you. It’s basically the adult version of hide-and-seek at a music festival, except in the end everyone wins.

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8. Ferris Wheel Midnight Ride

Picture the two of you at the very top of a Ferris wheel as it slows. Lights twinkle below and it’s quiet… perfect for a kiss. At the apex, engage it and press your bodies together. This isn’t just a romantic moment—it’s one of those sexual bucket list ideas you’ll never forget.

9. Hot Yoga Class (Couples Edition)

Yoga is healthy – but have you tried getting hot and bothered with it? Borrow a yoga mat (or five) and set up in a private room. Try partner poses that get you tangled: one in plank, other straddling, or the classic partner sit-and-kiss.

When you collapse in sweat, reach for the Power Stud Curvy and hit those tension spots. Bending over backwards has never been so rewarding.

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10. Underwater Expedition (Scuba Sex)

For the adventurous couple who really trust each other: snorkeling, naked. (Yes, underwater skinny dipping exists.) While it’s not exactly scuba diving, this underwater experience is the next best thing. The buoyancy is like a third person – weightlessness means easy nuzzle-overs. The fish? They’re very curious.

If going fully nude at a reef is illegal (insert wink), then at least fake it: wear skin-tight wetsuits or just swim trunks so it feels brash. Whether it’s Iceland’s hot springs or takig a nude dip off the coast of Rio de Janeiro, make it memorable.

11. Sensual Art Class (Body Painting)

Ever painted a canvas together? This time, paint each other. Get Play Pens Edible Body Paint Brushes and let each stroke be a slow tease. Instead of easels, turn the kitchen into a blank canvas. Then, dip fingertips in chocolate or strawberry sauce and scribble shapes on bare backs. In the end, it’s both an “art class” and a “food tour” mashup.

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12. Erotic Food Tour

Talk about eating out – literally. Cook a dinner together that feels sexy. Feed each other eye-to-eye, giggling as syrup drips in funny places. If you really want to lean into it, blindfold your partner with that and have them guess ingredients (with mouth only). For dessert, consider giving a massage, using an edible massage oil.

13. Room Service (At Home)

Turn your bedroom into a five-star suite. Order delivery, light candles, and vow not to leave the bed until tomorrow. Slip a playful note under the door—one that asks for more than water or towels. This is your chance to fly first class without ever leaving the bedroom.

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14. Lingerie Fashion Show (Bedroom Runway)

Raid your closets and dazzle your partner with your most scandalous outfits – or lack thereof. Pick themes and go wild with your bucket list ideas. Safari, disco, leather Gothic… lingerie always wins). The sillier and more confident you are, the hotter it gets. This is creativity, humor, and sex all wrapped up: definitely an ultimate list-worthy moment.

15. Blindfold & Bondage Basics

Don’t worry—this is light kink, not full-blown dungeon play. Want to add some mystery? Turn your bedroom into a DIY escape room with hidden clues, playful locks, and sexy consequences. The Ouch New York Collection Kit has everything you need: cuffs, restraints, and tools for teasing. Gently secure your partner, you can even surprise them with a remote bullet when they least expect it. It’s mystery, suspense, and pleasure—all in one unforgettable evening.

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16. Fantasy Roleplay Night

Dress up as your favorite flirty idea: maybe a detective and a captive, or a nurse checking vital signs (oxygen mask included). Props help: that riding crop or handcuffs from the BDSM section can turn it up.

Snap your fingers, don a uniform, or even just raise an eyebrow, and bam, you’re in character. Be as cheesy as a soap opera plot – I promise it works. Playing pretend with your partner keeps the relationship exciting and silly. It checks off another page from the ultimate sexual bucket list where fantasy meets funny.

17. Quickie in a Fitting Room

Shopping date? Why not take it up a notch. Slip into a fitting room together under the guise of trying on clothes—but really, you’re just there for the thrill. Start by whispering something filthy, pull them close, and keep it quick and quiet. To turn things up even more, slip in the discreet Kool Vibes Rechargeable Mini Bullet. One press, and things go from flirty to unforgettable. Of course, don’t treat it like a flash mob—this isn’t a group performance. Afterward, end the night curled up watching your favorite TV show. Little adventures like this add serious zing to your time together.

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18. Erotic Book Club

Who says book clubs are only for old ladies with tea? Invite your partner to pick an erotic novel or an off-color rom-com to read aloud. Pause at the juicy parts. Take turns reading or narrating the steamy bits… and then act them out (or laugh trying). This turns literature into foreplay.

19. Write a Lusty Love Letter

Get old-school with pen and paper. Write heartfelt dirty talk. Seal it, and when they open it later, watch their cheeks flush and eyes widen.

Tuck in a Nixie Smooch Rechargeable Lipstick Vibrator as a little “preview” of what’s to come. It’s discreet, sexy, and adds a physical spark to your written tease. You don’t need to trace your family tree to craft a letter your ancestors would blush over.

A handwritten love letter can reignite romance in a gentle, powerful way. If writing a letter feels too bold, start smaller—pass a note over breakfast or slip one into their coat pocket. Words are powerful, and the sexiest ones tend to linger far longer than any one-night stand.

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20. Learn the Language of Love

Learn a few sexy phrases in a foreign language and whisper them. “Te deseo mucho, mi amor” (Spanish for “I desire you a lot, my love”) whispered on a New York subway counts.

This adds a silly mystery because new language and local accents make everything more intimate. Download a phrasebook app and have a mini quiz: wrong answer means take off a layer. Right answers get a kiss as reward. It’s playful and educational.

21. Starry Night National Park Rendezvous

Find a national park or any patch of nature, pick a location with fall foliage for maximum romance, pack a cozy blanket, and head out. After a gentle walk on the trail under the stars, find a secluded spot and make a fire. With nothing but dark sky overhead, lay back and chat until hands wander. The wilderness is great: damp pine smell, cricket chorus, and nobody’s watching.

Bonus: bring a Wild Pop Vibe Mini Wand —turn it on when the conversation gets heavy. It feels strangely liberating to get busy under the northern lights. Just watch for bears – literally.

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22. Bathtub Rendezvous for Two

Light candles, hit play on a sultry playlist, and bring in your own wine you’ve been saving for a special evening. Pour two glasses, strip down, and slip into a steamy tub together. Take your time—tease, touch, and wash each other slowly until the bubbles aren’t the only thing rising.

This isn’t just self-care—it’s couple care, and it absolutely belongs on your sexual bucket list. By the time you step out, the wine won’t be the only thing fully uncorked.

23. Sunrise Breakfast in Bed (Naughty Edition)

Wake up 10 minutes earlier than usual. Bring your partner a meal in bed. Serve it mostly on each other. (Strawberries squished into foreheads, whipped cream on toes – basics.) The surprise of sticky morning kisses can be utterly electrifying – and it’s actually a very easy “new language” tactic, because belly rubs translate universally to “I love your body.”

Use Woo Hoo Flavored lube or massage oil to finish. The bed is the coziest place to start the day with laughs, syrupy kisses, and yes, hot, sticky fun. It’s low-key domestic bliss and an absolute bucket list idea to wake up together.

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24. Couples Karaoke or Dance-Off

Crash a karaoke bar or dance class. Belt out a duet (think “Love on Top” by Beyoncé, you know it!) or tango badly in the middle of class. The key is to be utterly shameless. After your big finish, reward yourselves with a steamy make-out session in the car on the way home.

A good old-fashioned karaoke or dance-off is hilarious, will likely give you butterflies (and maybe sweat), and leads to an exciting nightcap back home. Bonus points for dressing like your favorite band. Who said “singing sexy” isn’t a thing?

25. Scary Movie Marathon with a Twist

Finally, pick a list of scary movies and marathon it. As the tension builds in each flick, hand-feed your partner popcorn… or grapes… from your mouth—every time there’s a jump scare, cuddle and whisper a silly pickup line in their ear. When any sexy scene comes on, pause, and, uh… try to replicate it. By the end of the night, you’ll have your own backstory of screams and moans.

Now Check Them Off Your Sexual Bucket List

There you go—25 outrageous, giggle-filled, and sometimes downright dirty experiences to make your sex life feel like an ultimate bucket list tour. Each one is a perfect excuse to grab something special from JackandJillAdult.com. (Maybe click on that Magic Wand or Pleasure Plug I mentioned, cough.)

Life’s too short for boring nights. Spice it up, lock in those erotic memories, and remember: it’s okay, go ahead, take a walk on the wild side—your sexual bucket list deserves it.