It’s 2017 and there is still confusion about what “counts” as consent and what doesn’t. In nearly every sexual moment (outside of very specific kinky situations) anything other than a full-throated, enthusiastic, happy “Yes!” should make you pause. If you’re not sure it’s a big yes, ask. Still confused by …
Your phone can look up porn. It can help you meet your next soul mate. You can buy as many sex toys as you want and pay with your fingerprint. Some toys use a mobile app to make you come long and often. All these sexy things are available through …
Probably the only time no might not mean no is when you enjoy the power and fight of rough sex, a kinky scene, or you’re trying out some kind of power exchange. Pretending to fight off your partner when you really want them to keep going is most common in …
Look around the internet for a few moments, and you’ll quickly realize some of us believe a lot of weird, bad, or just wrong things about sex. It’s not completely our fault. From incomplete or non-existent sex education and societal and cultural pressures, sex is only something people tend to …
When you reach for a vibrator or dildo, what you want most is for it to work. It’s got a job to do – help get you off. What it looks like doesn’t always matter. But when you’re out shopping for a new sex toy, there’s nothing wrong with searching …
Sex toys aren’t a new invention. In fact, dildos have been around since around 28,000 B.C, at least. A few sex toys were a regular part of other cultures long before the invention of steam-powered and electric vibrators. Some sex toys are classics because they’ve been around since the dawn …
To give a full and complete history of the LGBTQ movement would require thousands of pages. Entire books have been written on pieces and parts of the history for equality among gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, and transgender Americans. Here we try to give a brief but holistic overview to understand …
For some people, watching or being watched is sexy. You might wear more revealing clothes knowing someone, your partner or not, will admire how you look. You might ask your partner for a striptease because you want to watch them get naked. Others, with or without a partner, may go …
A genuine sensual massage is much more than the haphazard shoulder rub you might give or receive in order to move straight to sex. While there’s nothing wrong with a quick rub down to signal sex, it’s not the same thing. If you’re the type of partner who offers a …
BDSM is supposed to be fun. Sure, it can be a lifestyle that you live with a partner. Or, if that’s too much, it can be the kind of sex you have with someone you like or love. But no matter what, it’s supposed to be something you enjoy. Getting …
You know what you don’t need any more of when it comes to sex, kink, relationships, or intimacy? Pressure. There’s enough of that from society, friends, family, and maybe even your partner on any number of things in your life. Orgasms should not be a thing anyone feels pressured to …
Anyone of any gender, race, or sexual preference can be kinky, and anyone can identify as a submissive. The hard part is finding a partner who accepts this side of you and wants to explore it with you. What stops many people from admitting their kink – submissive, dominant, or …
