What does it mean to get kinky? Whatever you want it to mean. If you’re ready to have fun with your new sex swing, kinking it up is easier than you realize.
Just like getting naked in bed, all you need is a little imagination and a willingness to try new things. Talk to your partner about your kinky desires and try any of these four tips to add kink to your sex life and your sex swing.
Use a Sex Swing
For some people, any sexual activity outside of a bed feels “kinky.” If you can relate, using a sex swing at all might be the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done. So if you’re feeling adventurous, here’s a good way to spice up your sex life. You don’t have to try any special positions or new sexy things. Put up your swing and get naked with a partner!
Choose the right sex swing for your space. Over the door options are the easiest to put up and take down. Swings that have a frame need lots of space but you don’t have to worry about damage to your home. If you choose one that mounts to the ceiling, make sure you know the structure of your home well and mount it in the right place. Otherwise, you’ll have a crash, a potentially injured partner, and a hole in your wall.
Try Orgasm Control
Orgasm control can be done in multiple ways:
- Forced orgasms
- Edging and teasing
- Orgasm denial
Whichever option appeals to you and your partner is the one to try. And if you’re feeling really kinky, you can combine two or three options in interesting ways for added sexual pleasure. Add a sex toy like a vibrator or a penis pump (like the Max Results Pump) to increase stimulation, pleasure, and control to your fun.
Sex swings offer more access to your partner’s body, so while you’re teasing them or getting them off, you can touch them in other spots, too. Maybe they have a butt plug inserted while you use a vibrator on their genitals. Maybe they wear a cage for chastity while you tease the rest of their body. The possibilities are literally endless.
Experiment with Role Play
If you or your partner have roleplay fantasies of being at the other’s mercy and unable to move or you picture exotic locales and sex positions, a sex swing could be exactly what you need. Sitting back in a swing offers brand new sensations that a bed, shower, or standing sex can’t. It’s easier to let your imagination go when your body already feels different.
You don’t need extra costumes or props either. The swing, your imagination, and a little dirty talk could make it the perfect role-play scenario. Once you’re both naked and into the moment, you can add to the fantasy or drop it completely and simply enjoy the hot sex you’re having together.
Explore Genital Worship
Essentially, the person on the receiving end gets all the attention of a partner’s mouth (as well as hands and maybe even sex toys). This isn’t inherently kinky unless you want it to be — especially if you both enjoy power exchange in your sex.
Whoever is going to have a mouth on their most sensitive parts sits back in the swing, legs wide so the other partner has easy access. The other partner can sit on the ground or kneel — depending on what works for their body and the height of the swing. The receiving partner can hold onto their shoulders and use the swing as leverage. This gives you control over the speed, duration, and action of their mouth.
You can also try 69, if you’d like to give each other mutual pleasure, with or without kink. The partner in the swing lies back so your genitals are exposed. The other partner leans forward so mouths and groins match up.
Conclusion
Anything you can do in bed or standing, you can probably do in a sex swing. So whatever kinky thing you have in mind, try it on the swing, too. The basic principles of kinky fun always apply: get consent from your partner, stay safe, and focus on your mutual pleasure. When you do that, you can kink anything up in a way you both enjoy.
Have you ever used a sex swing? What did you think of it? Did you get kinky? Share with us in the comments below!
