Multiple orgasms aren’t just a myth or part of some unattainable fantasy for everyone. In fact, many women enjoy plenty of orgasmic pleasure, multiple times, thanks to the help of their favorite vibrators. If you’re curious about whether it’s a possibility for you, try these tips. Even if you don’t get more than one big O, you’ll have a lot of fun and pleasure in the process.
Relax
Orgasms rarely do well under pressure, whether you’re trying for one or many. Masturbation is great for reducing stress and helping you relax, but if you’re worried about how many orgasms you’re about to have, it’s harder to have them. Try to go into this with no expectations of what’s “supposed” to happen. Don’t give yourself a goal of how fast you’ll get off or how many times. Allow this to be a pressure-free moment of nothing but pleasure.
Add Lube
If you’re not already using lube when you masturbate, we highly recommend it. Yes, even if you’re not penetrating yourself with your vibrator. Lube reduces friction and helps your sex toy glide more easily across your body. This means you’re able to focus more on pleasure. If your lube is very thick, you may find that the vibrations feel different. Adjust the settings to find what feels good.
Focus Your Vibrator Where You Like It Most
As someone who’s multi-orgasmic most of the time, one of my top tips is to make sure your vibrator hits all your hot-spots. It’s easy to tell ourselves that we “should” try more g-spot play when we love to have our clit stroked (or vice versa). But you like what you like, and there’s no “should” in self pleasure. So focus the stimulation wherever you enjoy it most and see what happens!
Get Your Whole Body Into It
Even if your vibrator is pulsing or buzzing against your clitoris, g-spot, both, or somewhere else (anal masturbation is absolutely a thing), don’t leave the rest of your body out of the fun. Additional sensations can amp up your pleasure and make it easier for you to reach one or more orgasms. Pinch your nipples. Run your hands down your thighs. Masturbation — with or without a vibrator — can be a whole body experience.
Play With the Vibrator Settings
While you can’t get “addicted” to a vibrator, you can get used to the stimulation. For any new kind of pleasure or orgasm — multiple or otherwise — change the settings up. Don’t force yourself to use a vibrator setting you hate, but if you’ve been using the same setting for the last several months, you might not realize what other patterns or intensities feel like. For some people, increasing the sensation makes it easier to get off multiple times.
Be Patient
For some, the first orgasm takes a while to arrive. For others, the first one is easy, but subsequent climaxes might take longer. Be patient and focus on the pleasure you feel. The point of masturbation, with or without a partner, doesn’t have to be about the orgasm. It can be more about how you feel, relieving stress, and having fun. This goes back to the first tip. If you tense up or begin to worry, you make it much more difficult to get off.
Use Your Sexual Fantasies
If you’ve got a masturbation habit or routine that you always stick to, you might be missing out on a mind-body connection to get yourself off. Before or after the first orgasm, let your mind wander to whatever turns you on most. Your vibrator can play a part of the action (like pretending it’s your lover’s tongue) or it can be the tool that gets you off in the background while your mind wanders. This is all in your head where no one else has to know, so give your imagination free rein.
Conclusion
Too many people think orgasms (one or many) are the entire point of sexual pleasure. They’re a part of it, and many of us want as many orgasms as we can get. But sexual pleasure is about getting in touch with your body, finding out what turns you on, giving into your fantasies, and enjoying yourself, with or without a vibrator. But if you’ve always wanted to know if you could have more than one orgasm, grab your favorite vibe, and try these tips. Even if you don’t get off several times in a row, you’ll still have fun playing with your toy and yourself.
Have you tried any of these tips in the past? Will you try one now? Let us know in the comments below!
