One person’s boring sexual rut is another person’s wild, sexy adventure. The new sex toys you need to make getting off exciting again will be different from person to person, depending on what’s got you into a stale routine. It’s not uncommon to get bored with even the best vibrator or sexual position. Sometimes you just want something a little different.
If you’re in a rut, trying a different sex toy may be exactly what you need.
High-Powered Vibrators
If your current vibrator or your hand just isn’t doing it for you, it might be time to increase the power. Body massagers and large vibrators are great for this. The Original Magic Wand might be the most well known but there are others you can try. Massagers are designed for external stimulation. They can be louder than your small bullet or discreet vibe so be prepared. But if it feels good, you might also be louder once you get off. Be ready for that, too.
Insertable Toys
For the person who always uses a sex toy held in or against your body, it’s time to go hands-free. You’ve got more options than you realize for this. Slip on some insertable panties and let the bullet vibe warm you up. Insert a set of Ben Wa balls and enjoy the way they move as you move. Try a small anal plug or probe for a completely new experience. Some plugs vibrate, so you can get even more stimulation.
Remote-Controlled Vibrators
Want to give your partner a way to get in on your vibrator fun? Try a toy that includes a remote control or can be used with a mobile app. Now hand the controls over to your partner. They’ll play with it differently than you do so you’re guaranteed to feel something new. For some couples, it can be a fun way to try out kink in a way that’s all about your pleasure. Let your partner know what works and what doesn’t so they can learn how to help you get the most from the experience.
Anything Anal
Anal play and sex have become much more common over the years, but that doesn’t mean everyone’s out there playing with someone else’s butt. If you’re bored with the sex you’ve been having, maybe it’s time to try anal. Start with really small toys until your body gets used to the sensation and penetration. You can use anal probes, anal beads, or prostate massagers. If you’ve never played with your butt, any toy you try will definitely make things more interesting for you or a partner.
Fleshlight
If you’ve been wanking away with cheap strokers or sleeves, it’s time to upgrade your pleasure. You get what you pay for and with Fleshlight, you’re paying for pure pleasure. Fleshlights are made from material that feels as lifelike as you can get without an actual partner. You can choose from different porn stars – male or female, depending on your preference. They’re reusable as long as you take care of them, and you can add accessories for even more fun.
Bondage Gear
For couples who’ve tried light kink and enjoyed it, but don’t know what to do next, it’s time to check out bondage gear. If spanking is your thing, consider paddles, crops, or whips. Love the idea of being tied up? Try an under-the-bed restraint system or bondage tape. Want to play with dominance and submission during sex? Get collars, cuffs, ball gags, blindfolds, and more kinky gear to take your kinky fun to a whole new level.
Sex Swings and Furniture
When your same two or three sex positions make you yawn, it’s time to find another way to have sex. Try new positions with sex swings and sex furniture. You can go as simple as a wedge that changes your angle in bed, or you can get adventurous with a swing. Suspend your partner or yourself off the ground and get pleasure from new angles. You can combine it with kinky fun or just try something completely different.
Conclusion
When you get into a sex rut, it sucks. You’re not having as much fun, and even your orgasms can feel boring and sad. Once that happens, it’s time to try something new. Sex toys are a tool to enhance your pleasure, not a replacement. So it makes sense that they can help you out of a rut and into new sexy fun — alone or with a partner.
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