Not everyone will produce a massive squirting during sex, just for the record. Also, to be clear, there is a difference between female ejaculation and a female with bladder issues that tend to pee during orgasm. Though both are considered an extreme release, one could be coital incontinence, and the other could be due to bladder incontinence, a slight difference.
Orgasm or Urine?
Both are involuntary emissions from women during ejaculation, where fluid is expelled with an orgasm approaching. Both can be a bit messy from squirting. In either case, vaginas squirt. One is from squirting orgasms, and the other is pee, properly called urine, which becomes more common as women age. Caused by many problems, such as a cystocele -where your bladder falls out of your vagina, commonly brought on by having big babies naturally – and other issues could be things like bladder polyps or a multitude more.
Release the Muscles
During sexual stimulation, it can be hard to contain fluids. Whether it is a female ejaculation or extra urine, penetrative sex and g spot stimulation cause, pelvic floor muscles to release. Think about it: when you reach orgasm, your muscles tense, then release, including the bladder.
Warm and Wet
People report a female ejaculate squirting orgasms, though it could simply be people squirting urine. Regardless, it’s a watery fluid, and we all know how squirting feels. It’s warm and wet.
During Oyster Season
With a little more research, such as going down for oral sex, you can see if the squirting is coming from up top by the clit where pee comes from or if it is cumming from between the labia, from the depth of the vaginal wall and beyond, with vaginal muscles tensing to squirt. Don’t be scared to earn your red wings; let globs slide down the back of your throat like oysters. Be a champ, as a female orgasm during that time of the month helps with cramps.
Enhancing Sexual Pleasure
Enhance both of your sex lives by exploring female sexuality through clitoral stimulation. Kick things up with a sex machine, pleasure air technology, and sex toys. Plump up that erectile tissue; try reverse cowgirl, as the vulva identifies when the g-spot is stimulated. Put the penis deep inside the pelvic muscles, feel then tense and release during sexual activity, such as during doggy style, which makes sense, as it’s like milking the fluid released for female ejaculation.
Producing an Orgasm
Even solo play can produce squirting orgasms. Lick the belly button and tease out an orgasm. Stimulate the erogenous zones and produce that prostatic-specific antigen that helps with the female ejaculation, also known as the female orgasm; ask a sex therapist. Grab a sex toy or have partnered sex, and that g-spot stimulation makes for experienced squirting.
Squirting is much more obvious when a man has an orgasm than with a female. Milking the prostate can produce semen quickly. Sex experts are not shocked by a man squirting a few feet, but a lot of people like to have more research into how to make a woman squirt more.
Stimulate the Prostate
Why are men so reluctant to explore stimulating their prostate? A guy told me about getting blue balls and going to the hospital. The doctor stuck a finger up his butt. I had to explain to him that the doctor milked his prostate, which is done by a finger up the butt, almost like a come hither motion; why do guys forget they have g-spots (p-spot) in their anal cavity?
The Skene’s Glands
Women have a similar area to the male prostate. Under the bladder and surrounding the urethra is a glandular tissue known as the Skene’s glands, which is the source of the white secretion seen during squirting orgasms. The sensitivity is not from the upper wall of the vagina but from those glands and ducts behind the vaginal wall, a third of the way up.
Female Prostate Cancer
Though you cannot technically get prostate cancer without a prostate, these glands can foster cancerous growth, affecting the bladder, urethra, and reproductive organs. Producing the PSA ejaculate protein can show up when women get breast cancer, often dropping after radiation. Frequent and painful urination, vaginal itching, painful sex, pain in the lower pelvis, and interruptions to the menstrual cycle can indicate something is wrong. However, these symptoms are not always cancer, as they could be polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), endometriosis or other medical issues that are worth talking to a doctor about.
Know Medical History
That’s why keeping up with your female medical history is so important. There are so many advances in sexual medicine that getting screened yearly and checked for sexual diseases is essential. That’s also why it’s essential to know if it’s urine or ejaculate and your sexual medicine history in case of any discomfort during sex.
It’s always exciting when women ejaculate. Hitting the g-spot is not the same for each partner. Not everyone can find the g-spot, but when you have a partner willing to explore the body to find that g-spot that creates the squirting, it’s well worth the journey.
Stimulation with Vibration
Even if you don’t have a partner, the technology is so great these days; the g-spot can be hit with the right dildo. You cannot go wrong with clitoral stimulation, especially combined with a dildo designed to hit the g-spot, like a rabbit. Others prefer anal play.
Some Anal Play
By anal play, you can try a little vibration from something like a bullet, or you can penetrate a little deeper with some anal beads. Don’t be afraid to try out a butt plug during sex or stimulation with sex toys. They have cute jeweled and furry butt plugs to play with, too.
Little Extra Stimulation
Sometimes, a little anal stimulation, combined with clitoral and/or vaginal stimulation, can produce even greater squirting orgasms. The enhanced stimulation can make the toes curl, muscles tighten and release the squirting. Try extra stimulation, as it can go a long way!
My Dad Said…
If you want to get up close and personal, start by gently flickering the tongue on the clit, and once she begins to quiver, insert either your finger or a sex toy, slowly teasing, but making sure to get up and behind that pelvic wall to stimulate the g-spot. See how much of the female ejaculation you can swallow. My dad said, “you can’t get pregnant from swallowing.”
He wouldn’t steer you wrong, now, would he? That’s words from a wise man. Now, go forth and stimulate your partner into producing squirting orgasms, or stimulate yourself until you are wet from multiple orgasms, as that’s one way to help lower your stress levels at least.
Ask My Mom…
Now, if you ask my mother, she will tell you that a dildo is the way to go, as it doesn’t sleep around, get messed up, ask you for money, try to brawl with other dildos, ask to get bailed out of jail or ask for too much of anything at all. While you might need batteries and lube, you don’t have to buy expensive meals, dress up in expensive outfits, or try to impress them. Yes, my mom said that dildos are much more faithful than most partners, always ready to perform whenever you are, and won’t bore you with a conversation, but they are great listeners.
She added that you know where the dildoes have been. Chuckling, “you can ride them as far as your imagination can take you.” I can’t argue with that logic, oh, wise mother.
For Bragging Rights
I’ll let you decide your favorite way to orgasm. Whether you are a girl or a guy, you can always try to mark your furthest squirt and try to beat your own record. Challenge a partner to a squirting contest to see who is the best squirter for bragging records.
If you think you are good enough, take that show on the road and charge admission. Trust me; plenty of people are willing to pay for a good squirting show. Make that money and have as much fun squirting as humanly possible; don’t harm someone by squirting in the eyes.
That’s the danger they forget to warn you about. Eye irritation caused by squirting and a mouthful of golden shower when you thought it was ejaculation. At least I can tell you that you’ve been warned, so don’t come crying to me if you got a mouth full of pee when you thought it was squirting of female ejaculation in your mouth this time, as I am here to write it for the record that it’s not always ejaculation if she has to pee bad at that time, as just like men can get a piss hard-on, a woman might not be able to control urination. Happy squirting!