You’ve confessed your kinks, talked about your secret BDSM fantasies, and even shopped for fetish gear together. Talking and thinking about your kinks isn’t the same as acting on them, though. When you’re ready to finally have your first kinky scene with your partner, here’s what you need to know. …
This isn’t the first time we’ve busted kinky BDSM myths here at Jack and Jill, and it might not be the last. BDSM and kinky sex (technically two different things) are a lot of fun, get better with good sex toys, and get a lot of people off. But for …
Do you have a bondage fantasy that involves kinky sex with handcuffs or restraints and being tied up by your partner? For the person who wants to be tied up, it’s often about giving up control and being at the mercy of someone else. For a moment in time, they …
For people who figure out or know they’re dominant and want to explore BDSM, it can happen in a variety of ways. Maybe your sexual fantasies have always been kinky. You may have read some erotica and felt something click inside you. Maybe you watched porn and wanted some of …
Any sex toy can be kinky in a BDSM scene or a Dominance and submission (D/s) relationship. Some toys are made specifically so you can get your kink on. If you’re new to kink or you’re ready to add sex toys to your play, here are a few ideas if …
A spanking is as simple as the palm of one person’s hand landing on another person’s bottom. You might not think sex toys have a place in spankings. Think again. Kinky sex toys can enhance your pleasure and pain, whether they’re designed to leave behind a red mark or not. …
It’s 2017 and there is still confusion about what “counts” as consent and what doesn’t. In nearly every sexual moment (outside of very specific kinky situations) anything other than a full-throated, enthusiastic, happy “Yes!” should make you pause. If you’re not sure it’s a big yes, ask. Still confused by …
Probably the only time no might not mean no is when you enjoy the power and fight of rough sex, a kinky scene, or you’re trying out some kind of power exchange. Pretending to fight off your partner when you really want them to keep going is most common in …
BDSM is supposed to be fun. Sure, it can be a lifestyle that you live with a partner. Or, if that’s too much, it can be the kind of sex you have with someone you like or love. But no matter what, it’s supposed to be something you enjoy. Getting …
Anyone of any gender, race, or sexual preference can be kinky, and anyone can identify as a submissive. The hard part is finding a partner who accepts this side of you and wants to explore it with you. What stops many people from admitting their kink – submissive, dominant, or …
You’ve done a little spanking in bed, maybe some light bondage. It’s a turn on for you and your partner, but you want something more. Maybe you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey or watched a little BDSM porn. Whether you want to be on the giving or receiving end of …
Your partner has your hips in a bruising grip as they pound away, thrusting in and out of you. You’re both yelling and sweating. It’s the hottest sex you’ve had in a long time. Out of nowhere, you feel their palm land on your bottom. It hurts, but it feels …
